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  1. This is why I suggested having a singular conversation where you expressed how you felt before ending the relationship without explanation. I understand that you are worried about being controlling, but I have a feeling you're going to regret not addressing the issue with him before ending it. You always have the option of ending it if he acts like your feelings about this (probably) unimportant behavior to him don't matter, but a lot of guys would be just fine with unfollowing the porn-y Instagram accounts to be with a real girl that they really like. However, I've never met your boyfriend and he could be a shady guy not worth dating. I just wouldn't presume it based on this piece of information. Props for being willing to make hard choices so you can be happy, though. Usually on enotalone it is mostly people who cling and cling even when it is clearly toxic or over.
  2. It's not really the same as strippers and strip club behavior because he is just viewing photos. I'm struggling to understand why him following Instagram "models" is different separate from the public nature, but I do agree that I've dated plenty of men that don't do so and it would likely be easy to find someone who doesn't. OP, the only comment you didn't acknowledge was mine (the one that did not necessarily suggest breaking up was the correct move) so you must really just want to end things. At the end of the day, if you don't want to be with a person, any reason is "good enough". Saying your incompatible is a good breakip line. Go NC after and don't jerk the guy around if you have doubts about it at a later date.
  3. I mean, unless he's messaging the girls, isn't it the equivalent of viewing porn? I don't know what your policy on porn is, but watching it and masturbation in general seems normal to me. I don't know if following those accounts constitutes as "lusting" after the women, and the fact that it is public likely means he didn't even consider that this would bother you. If it really bothers you, talk to him in a reasonable manner before dumping him. The conversation may lead to a breakup, which is also fine, but you could give the guy the chance to say his peace. I think you should be aware, though, that even if he agrees to not follow the women that most of the profiles that men follow on Instagram of half-naked women are public. Oh, and he definitely watches porn, so it really won't change anything at all. The fact that you say you want him to hide the behavior from you strikes me as weird. Don't you want to know who your partner is and that they are being honest with you?
  4. Yes, though the reasons for dry orgasms vary. Why don't you google the topic? I'm not sure your question is appropriate for this forum.
  5. I've done everything right. These past few weeks have been so easy. Like a breath of fresh air. So why is tonight so hard? I can hear your voice, picture your face so clearly. I know I'll never be around you again. I figure it doesn't bother you. Nothing bothers you. Not sure why I even wasted time writing here. We're just strangers now.
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