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  1. I can guarantee I'll be houseless and penniless ....not much of an option at this age .No hostility as such especially from me or her, resentment for me , yes. Im sure she has no idea how i feel.
  2. No , well we had both been separated from our previous spouses for some time but not divorced. In regard my boys , to live with us for a while. She said we had an agreement..not that I know of....sorry,but my boys are not an "agreement". seems her kids can do no wrong but one small transgression from mine 'oh boy. She is quite rude to my youngest sometimes.
  3. Funny you should mention that, a couple of times we have had a minor disagreement ( mainly her making a mountain out of a molehill..and just recently I was holding a crab the wrong way for a photo apparently..) and she has said ' Im happy to end this if thats what you want.." and some years ago when I was having some issues with my two young sons, "If you want both your boys to come here , Im happy to end this.." Mmmm...
  4. No...only if the sex becomes satisfying...she makes no effort to excite me in any way....
  5. Funny you should mention that, a couple of times we have had a minor disagreement ( mainly her making a mountain out of a molehill..and just recently I was holding a crab the wrong way for a photo apparently..) and she has said ' Im happy to end this if thats what you want.." and some years ago when I was having some issues with my two young sons, "If you want both your boys to come here , Im happy to end this.." Mmmm...
  6. Hi Batya, What changed after 6 months?? Ive no idea. It was like someone flicked a switch. I guess I just kept hoping it would get better. We were together 4 years before marriage. The big problem now is age and we are retiring at the end of the year. I have so much to lose by pulling the pin. It will NOT end well for me I tell you. I do not have the energy to go through that *** again. I just want it to be normal again..
  7. Hi everybody, I'm almost at my wits end here. Will try to keep this short and sweet. My wife of 9 years (second marriage for us both, and I think it is the biggest mistake 've ever made other than getting married the first time !), is just not affectionate in anyway anymore. Very sudden turn around after 6 months of marriage. Sex once a month if Im lucky, and then very unsatisfying due to no effort on her behalf at all. I have to do ALL the initiating ...AND...starts talking about her elderly Aunty ( just ONE example) just as im trying to do it!!! Man....what a turn off! Complains the whole time that Im hurting her is some way or another ., Even if I hug her she will hold her arms in front of her chest. I am Craving some physical contact .Skin Hunger they call it, just a caress, a touch, something....I feel so neglected.... Just never shuts up about other peoples dramas, NEVER ! I just even have trouble being in the same room as her now. Its breaking my heart. There was a disturbing incident involving her cousin some years ago. They were spending a lot of time together and then had a big falling out and her cousin said to me as she was leaving, " You should hear what she's saying about you! She said that she is not sexually attracted to you anymore and she rubbishes your children! She said this 3 times!" My wife started acting very nervous after that and denied it vehemently but body language and her nervous chatting tells me otherwise.' Well, I dont think I handled this very well in hindsight, I should have said right everyone ,sit down , discussion time because this is serious ***. But the cousin left and that was that. But now her actions since have only worsened my fears. She picks on lots of little things, " Oh look , you just spilt a drop of water on the floor whilst washing your hands" I just brush against her in bed and its" Ow you hurt me then" And one of the most annoying things is when say I am in the kitchen and you know how sometimes you get in someones way when they are moving around , then the body english, wow! Rolls eyes , gives impatient breath , like I have committed the worst crime! She is quite rude and brusque with me a lot for no reason, I am one of the easiest people in the world to get along with ( this is part of my problem I think , Im too easy and I hate conflict). Oh one last thing , If i even make a tiny noise whilst her TV show is on God help me , but she will talk incessantly trough mine and I read a lot of technical books and same thing when doing that. This is from a woman that claims regularly that I am the best thing to ever come her way and she loves me sooo much.... I am 62 and dont have any options anymore in regards somewhere else to go. I sold my house so there went my safety net. I would walk if I had options... I am sooo depressed. I just dont know how to addess this.
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