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Wow that sounds really good! I can't think of much to say as I'm not a big poetry person and usually don't even look at poem topics but your's caught my eye because the frist few lines were so intriguing.=D>
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Girlfriend is having problems with these guys at school
vermilion replied to HyruleGuardian's topic in Relationship Advice
Tell a school administrator what's going on. The last thing you want to do is getting thrown in jail for beating the crap out of some punk- as tempting as it is. Keep in mind there's a good chance he's just full of it- most high school jerks are more talk than action. It's likely he won't do anything more than give her dirty looks. -
I'm confused- she already has a boyfriend, so why should it matter? And is she saying you're too tall or too big? Because it sounds as though her bf is tall too. Really, it sounds rude of her to comment on your body like that, so who needs her?
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Why did I go on his Flickr?
vermilion replied to bella321's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I do the same thing with myspace- ugh, it's the WORST when I see him with some cute girl and I know that I brought it on my self because I shouldn't have looked. Technology complicates things, huh? -
See a dermatologist. Especially if you have VERY inflamed skin- they can inject cortisone into the worst parts of your skin which will INSTANTLY improve your skin. Also, they will give you something you can take in pill form- for some people topical products (such as proactiv) just don't work.
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Dude, try switching it up a bit! Have you tried chubby Korean girls and tall, skinny white girls?
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In my psych class, we were talking about relationships. The teacher asked a few questions, that got me thinking... If you were cheated on or rejected by someone, would you rather it be because your bf/gf/crush was simply attracted to another person or because they actually had feelings for another person? I say, I'd rather it was nothing but lust- because it would hurt to know they had feelings for another person. But I was countered with "Yeah, but that means it took nothing but a hot body to betray you. And if you're rejected, it means the spark you two had didn't make up for your looks." Either way, it still sucks, right? If a person believes someone is betraying them or lying to them (w/o substantial proof), it usually means the person themselves is prone to being dishonest themselves. Hmmm.... I actually get the feeling that people are lying to me a lot and that guys I go out with are imagining sleeping with every girl that's nearby while I'm talking to him. I'm a paranoid person though and really insecure. I don't consider myself a dishonest person. Or maybe I am a big liar...
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How do I tell my sister, her boyfriend is cheating?
vermilion replied to lovecrazy's topic in Infidelity
I think the whole setting him up thing is a little too much. Sounds fun though. You should just tell your sister what you heard and let her interpret it how she wants and she can confront her boyfriend. Do make it clear that you don't know if this really happened though- don't make it sound as though you SAW it happen. -
You know, if they were kissing in a bar it's very likely they were drunk- not something that would happen if she were thinking clearly. Maybe she felt guilty about it which is why you two were having a rough patch. But try not to get yourself upset over little things like friends that say "I love you" and thinking that a kiss points to her having a full-blown affair. You should talk to her about it- soon. It's not a good idea to try to find out on your own, and the longer you wait to bring it up the more it will eat at you. It's a good idea to ask her about the pictures in a non-confrontational way.
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You should loosen up and get more wet if you get turned on enough. Try kissing and touching a LOT and then try fingering- don't just start off fingering or it will hurt.
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should i ask my lovely sort-of-friend if she'll be my girlfriend?
vermilion replied to Suikoden26's topic in Dating Advice
What's an aspie? Sorry, I know I'm stupid, but I'm curious. Well, that wouldn't really be a compliment. You could have told her you find her attractive. You just said you thought someone might find her attractive. Maybe I'm just over-sensitive but that would hurt my feelings. I don't know if this is a good idea. I mean, she sounds like someone who would bring you down- negative and depressed. But if that's what you're into, because you two are alike, why not go for it? I mean, you said yourself you're not exactly friends so what do you have to lose? Gain some confidence in yourself! EDIT: Are you a woman? Sorry, but I just reread that last part. Because if you want to date her you might want to find out if she's gay/bi first. Unless you meant you want to be her friend. Or maybe you're a guy, I wasn't sure -
Why are you being so rude to me? You don't even know me and you're telling me I'm a terrible person. I think you just ignore the fact that I'm more focused on her attitude because you're so busy trying to make yourself sound like a saint to impress some strangers. Then you tell me to "move on" like I'm pining over this situation. Geez, I was just bringing something up on a site where I thought I could get some perspective on something. I was wondering why a guy who can do better, doesn't. I probably should have just put that, oops. But I've been feeling a little upset so I just typed the other things I was feeling. I didn't expect to have people lash out at me for typing my feelings. Of course, now I have to feel like some sort of freak because apparently, NO ONE has ever felt like one of their friends could do better. No one has ever judged someone. No one has ever felt jealous. I don't think I'm better than everyone, I don't spread rumors, I don't judge everyone I meet by their looks, I don't purposely try to hurt people's feelings. so no, I'm not a "mean girl". And I am "leaving him be" , I'm not going to say anything to him because I know it's not any of my business. I was saying I'd like to ask him about it, not that I would.
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Ok the hair thing was shallow of me. But I'm talking about an unhealthy weight not "curvy". And she's rude to everyone, all the time. I'm not the only one who thinks so. Eating with your mouth open is disgusting. I have a healthy appetite. But I don't believe stuffing your face is healthy, neither is starving yourself. stuffing your face and sitting around all day and wondering why you're obese is not healthy and what does that have to do with sex? I just don't think it's right that she would go hit on other guys (who aren't interested) when she has a great guy already.And then the way she talks to him! How can you think that's ok?
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Maybe you could volunteer somewhere while you're looking for your job? You can usually volunteer at places right away. It's better than moping, right?
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I feel sick every time I hear her put him down and see her flirt with other guys. I just don't get what he sees in her. I just don't understand it. There's plenty of beautiful, sweet girls who would go out with him. And I'm sick of feeling jealous of a girl who's so incredibly rude and obnoxious. She's overweight, chews with her mouth open, belches, farts, cuts her hair in the ugliest styles, isn't EVER happy (unless she's berating someone). Maybe he has low self-esteem? She's rarely nice to him though. And she's so far below him on many different levels. I can't stand it! I just wish I could tell him my feelings but I wouldn't want to deal with his rejection and her wrath. No one says anything to him- how he could do so much better, how he deserves respect, because they don't want to rub elbows with the girlfriend from hell or upset him. I know it's none of my business who he dates, but I'd honestly feel happier if he dated someone who was at least NICE to him even if I'd still be incredibly jealous of her. Has anyone else ever been in a situation like this?
