I appreciated this thread. Most people that were getting mad at posting only positives are mostly seasoned dating masters and they've experienced their fair share of breakups Us newbies don't really get false hope, just comfort that maybe someday it will rekindle, and while hope is a destroyer, faith that if it's meant to be, it will, actually helps to heal. I am struggling accepting a breakup but after spending more time on this forum I think I am closer to acceptance. Don't get me wrong, I'm not quitting yet, but I feel as if I am no longer "oh-my-gosh-there-is-no-other-option-than-getting-back-together" and I know I'll be able to move on someday, and maybe one day we will enter each other's lives again. This thread was helpful, honestly, and didn't give me false hope at all!