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  1. hey guys i did follow that little plan i came up with for a while, but i felt like it was going no where, by the time it worked (if it actually did) i was no longer in love with that girl it was great to look back at this post to remember how i felt
  2. omg i created this thread almost two years ago, and i cannot believe what i wrote... i was ignorant to the fact that people change, including me. whilst i was worrying about her feelings changing i was oblivious to my own steadily decreasing! i found out last month that she was at a party with a few of my friends and she was drunk, telling them it was the biggest mistake she ever made letting me go. and i can firmly say i felt nothing love comes and goes as does experiences. right now im with an amazing girl and i wouldn't change a thing
  3. i guess im just highly curious if she actually want more than just a friendship again, its just leading me on and im lost. im scared of not knowing what could happen, then again im scared of getting my hopes up for nothing, thanks for the advice guys, its a tuffy
  4. how do i stop myself falling for her again for all not familiar with my story, i joined enotalone around 10months ago after a nasty break-up! i was the dumpee, lots of problems with the relationship, mainly me wanting one and her not (rather be with her girl friends) lol, anyway nc was followed for 8months then she contacted me around the beginning of December, a few days before what would have been a 2yr anniversary. contact was light (every 2-3 days), i was always being contacted by her etc... around a week ago i joined bebo, the first day and i get a comment from her, then when i reply im quick to find out she has me placed 6th in her best friends list(all girls but me), im thinking ooooooooooooook . since then she has been commenting almost everyday, i feel that an old infatuation is beginning to surface! i thought i was over her, but at this point in time im 2nd guessing myself! i dont know weather to pursue a relationship again, or cut the contact until i really can deal with just a friendship im so confuddled lol P.s .i still have a lot of love for this girly!
  5. woha !!!!! many months have passed since i wrote this!! and i took superdaves advice and stuck out nc until i was contacted by her not to long ago. we now talk quite abit and i find myself in a strong position, we have yet to talk about the relationship for reasons i believe to be 1, she is very shy and always said that she would never ask a boy out or be the first to talk etc,, and 2 because i dont feel the need to dive straight into cloudy water, nc has taught me i am more important than a failed relationship, i have built a strong heart and will not be fooled twice my friends! if love blossoms again! great! if it does not. well her loss! lol be strong and you will achieve more than you can imagine!
  6. the only logical thing i can see here is 1. contact her to see where you stand and get closure for youself! (becuase you will never heal if you dont have it) 2. if its over, ITS OVER do not beg! no more contacting! move on! and work on yourself!
  7. was just reading a few topics! im not one to write a poetic answer that often,lol ive been sitting in all night downloading music just wanted to tell you of an artist named james morrison who has some great insprational music! really! you should all check up on his vids on youtube! and just to keep superdave happy! NC is the best way!!!!
  8. hehe nice one super dave!! dont be jelious iron pump! if uve lost a love! plz plz believe in the NC! it puts you in a win win situation! nothing is better just read superdaves posts! he is a relationship veteran by the sounds of things whooop whoop
  9. Thank you Mike i was thinking of that answer before you said it anyone got anyother advice! that they think may be better! thanks
  10. oh yea guys! how do you think i should go about this contact now? now that shes showing slight intrest in me!
  11. ill leave the NC spokesperson job to you! your much better !! WOOOOHOOOO lol!
  12. to be honest i thought this NC idea in the beginning was a bad idea! i didnt see hwo it would get me "back together" with my ex, but after a while i reailsed its not about my ex! its about me! and anything else that comes is just a bonus!! but it looks like NC has worked the way i wanted it to from the beginning so yea! YA GOTSTA LOVE NC (H) lol thanks superdave !!
  13. i didnt say their was the option to go back to this woman yet! im just saying that NC helped me so much and that its put me in the power position i will admit i think she likes me again, simply for the fact she came out of the blue, txt me all last night, emailed me, and talked about going to the cinema,! but as i said im not jumping into anything!!!! it needs to move slow!! foundation matters the most when it comes to building something strong!! sure their are issues that need adressed but not yet!!
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