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  1. I'm stumped! Is he an influencer? If he were one or worked in that sort of field, then he may have wanted to pursue someone who's like-minded. Still, just what the?!
  2. She isn't being straightforward with you. As suggested above, unless she wants to get back together with you she shouldn't contact you you.
  3. Devastating! Stay safe y'all. Thinking of you xx
  4. Red flag. You could argue that living with someone's family is financially wise as getting a property or renting is getting more expensive. BUT It's one thing to earn very little and therefore not being able to save. It's quite another to have a well paying job and carelessly spend money consistently. Yes, it's his money so he has the right to do that. Bottom line: If his attitude towards finances doesn't mesh with yours, you might want to reconsider the relationship.
  5. My friend is an overly chatty person, like she really needs to talk. She usually has something to gab about. Reality is, I sense that long silences seem awkward/uncomfortable to her thus she feels the need to express herself continuously. Whereas I love some quiet every now and then. I find that enjoying each other's company in silence sometimes is very beautiful. She's got ADHD so I must learn to cope with who she is.
  6. That he's got great taste in music! 😁 Romance is in the air? To die by your side Is such a heavenly way to die [...] To die by your side Well, the pleasure, the privilege is mine *swoon* He seems interested. Ask him to meet up for ice cream or something. See how that turns out.
  7. Sorry for your loss, Kwothe.
  8. Glad you're giving him a shot. Whilst I believe intellectual compatibility is highly important, it's best not to judge a guy due to his texting abilities. A lousy text conversationalist could be quite the thrilling enthusiast when you personally meet him. Have a great time on your date!
  9. Depends. If you're fun, engaging, flirty... all the vibes of potential romance... then not kissing them early on would generally not deter a genuinely interested guy. But if your vibe comes across as friends-like then not kissing your date would evidence lack of interest.
  10. As this thread has proven, there isn't one right way for a man to show interest towards a woman he fancies. We are unique and have different preferences as well as dislikes. It's how he makes us feel that generally determines whether we like him or not. Anyone's best bet: be the best version of yourself. At the end of the day, trying is better than not having tried at all.
  11. A pleasantly brief conversation is fine. Definitely beyond hello. It's all about mutual attraction (looks are subjective) and connecting with a potential date.
  12. Echoing others here. It's all about connecting with a potential date. When I interact with a man, no matter how short, we are connecting. Provided it's pleasant I'll be happy to receive his number or give him mine when asked. Giving my digits to some random man I've never even spoken to or, worse yet, seen in my life is highly unlikely. I'd have to be incredibly attracted to him somehow for it to work. Remember that a 'direct' approach whilst efficient ignores one key detail: we choose whom to give our time and attention to based on how they make us feel.
  13. Happy New Year, lovely posters! ☺️
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