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Hahahaha, I'm sorry but that is too funny.

For a month or so. He really is a jerk. I liked him alot.

I posted a couple days ago about how I broke up with my bf because he made a Myspace page which said he was single and looking for a "smart girl with aspirations and goals." I thought I had overreacted, since we never had the exclusivity talk but I didn't think we had to. Anyway, he flipped out. I had a movie of his that I was supposed to return but I never got around to returning it at the beginning of the week. The other night he text me "Where's my movie?" And I text back "Where's my apology?" He said I wasn't getting one. So for 2 hours I got a burrage of text messages that were rather quite mean. I'm a ****, I'm stupid, I'm jealous of him..etc. I ignored most of the texts and I think that made him very mad. He sent a text saying "I better have my movie by Friday!" and then he called right after. I talked to him for an hour, and he couldn't understand why I was mad about Myspace. He flat out told me I do not meet the criteria he stated on his Myspace. I said "Ok if I'm not the one I'm not going to hang around while you search for her!" He was really upset. He said I was going to go out this weekend and find a new guy and do the same sexual things with him that he and I did together. WHY DOES HE CARE? We ended the phone call with him saying "Have fun partying this weekend, and with that guy" WHAT GUY? I dropped his movie off in his mailbox yesterday and text him saying that it was in the mailbox. He text back "You should realize that you and I have the ability to make alot of money." I said "Ok why?" And he said "Because you are business savy." This guy is nuts! WHat is his deal? If I'm not the giirl he's looking for, why is he so upset?

LOL thanks everyone for your responses. I was really questioning whether my reaction was justified. We never really had an exclusivity talk, but I didn't think we had to. We hung out everyday, talked on the phone everyday, and we were intimate. I assumed that we were exclusive. I just cannot believe someone would be that dumb to request the girl he's seeing as a friend on Myspace, knowing she would read that. Unless he did it on purpose to see what I would do. He did seem insecure on Sat. when he accused me of giggling and then the next day made the Myspace. I guess it doesn't matter now, but jeez what a moron!

Well I think he just said that to spite me. He was pretty upset that I had ended things. But then again, if he didn't want things to end he wouldn't have put that on his Myspace, correct?

Hey all, have not posted in a while. Well I had been seeing this guy for a month. Everything was going really well. On Saturday night we were supposed to hang out. He called at 9 as I was about to get gas. I giggled about something and I don't even remember giggling, but he says I giggled. Hegot mad and accused me of having another guy in the car. This came out of left field. He accused me of playing games with him and trying to piss him off. Ok? I was just getting gas! So we talked and worked out that little tiff. I thought things were back to being awesome. That is until he made a Myspace page. He made it over the weekend and he sent me a friend request. I accepted and text him joking about it. Then I read what he had wrote on his page. In his "Who You'd Like To Meet" section he put "A smart girl with ambition and respect" and some other things. In his "Here For" section he put "Networking, Dating, and Friends." I was not happy. It felt like a slap in the face, the fact that he knowingly sent me a friend request after putting that in his profile did not sit well. I ended things with him. I told him that was not going to fly. He didn't understand what the big deal was and told me I was crazy and hung up on me. He text me soon after hanging up on me and said "You should realize that I don't respect women. I gave you a change to be my friend." Bla bla bla it really made no sense. Things were going really well, and I can't understand why he would put that in his Myspace page and request me as a friend. I didn't ask him to remove it as some of my friends suggested. I just dumped him. Now I am sort of having second thoughts. What do you all think?

And I've talked to him every day in the past month, we just haven't gone out and hung out or anything like that.

I'm cool with it being just about sex, but now it's just confusing. I have been avoiding him for the past month, simply because of the confusion. He will ask me out to dinner, he wanted to go to dinner last week but I told him I was too busy. I don't know what he wants, and I don't really know how to bring it up. Either way I'm happy but meeting his mom creeped me out.

Ok I have posted in the past couple months about the guy I've been dating/hooking up with. I had sex with him right off the bat and we agreed that it was just to be a hooking up affair. Well, he took me out on dates, showed up to the bars I go to...and he's invited me to dinner. I haven't seen him in about a month because I had written him off pretty much. Monday he texts me and asks me to meet him for drinks and watch him play pool. So I did. He didn't tell me his mom would be there. It was realllllly weird. I talked to his mom, very nice woman. I met his co-workers. Now I'm inclined to think that guy's, especially momma's boys, do not introduce the girl they hook up with to their mom's. Am I right? By the way, I did not go home with him. I gave him a kiss good night and left.

Haha yea I would love to just not show up. I've always done that in the past during my teen years..but I can't really with this job. I need the references and plus, they are like family...which also makes quitting hard.

Ok I am ready to quit my job, school starts tomorrow and there is no way I can put in only 10 hours and get paid minimum wage at my job. I found another job waitressing that I can start as soon as I can, but I have to give my two weeks. I've never had to quit a job formally before. How do I bring it up? What do I say? What if they try to talk to me out of it?

I don't think she's that interested in you to be honest...

You're like one of her girlfriends, except the anatomical difference. Sorry.

It wouldn't have been so bad had he not come on so strong. Like I said, I'd talked to him once on the phone for like 20 minutes, and in that 20 minutes he said we clicked. I'm a very outgoing person, and I laugh alot. Somehow he interpreted this as us clicking. I remember making a joke about something and he started laughing and said "That's it, we are so getting married." Yea it may have been a harmless joke on his part, but I don't even know him! He also invited me to a wedding during our one phone conversation. I told him I didn't know what my schedule would be like that day, and he told me to keep that day open. And one time at the bar he tried to hold my hand. I haven't led him on in the least bit. He also shoved one of my best guy friends out of the way when he tried to dance with me at the club. I don't know if this guy is psycho or what but I'd really like to get rid of him!

My friend and I were out one night at a bar and she ran into of her old friends. He told her he thought I was gorgeous so she hooked us up. We went out last week for dinner. It was a nice dinner, but there were some things I didn't like about him. He was too open about his sexual past, I didn't even ask him. He kept saying that his friends were putting pressure on him not to screw things up with me. I had only talked to him on the phone once before! He told me that we clicked. I was kind of creeped out. So after the date I went home and I wasn't planning on seeing him again. I felt myself that we did not click. He has called me everyday since. He texts, calls ...etc etc. I told him that he was coming on too strong and that I really wasn't looking to date him. Even after telling him this, he still calls me! He invites me to dinner, the movies. I don't know what else to do? I haven't been taking his phone calls or calling him back. He will call up my friend and ask her why I'm not calling him back and she really can't say anything because it's not her place. He shows up to the bar I frequent on the weekends and he will hang around me all night. I told him that I do not want to pursue anything more with him but he's not getting it! What am I supposed to do now?