Piaresssss
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Piaresssss replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I wonder how long you planned on leaving me. Then let me think there was a chance of getting back togethere. Thing is you still didnt tell me this. You told someone else like you always did. You are a bad person and i dont want to be your friend -
Very difficult, i cried most of the day to be honest. Im seeing her friday and we are just going to talk it all out.
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I told her we cant be friends and she started to cry so i dont know. This is a road i have not traveled before but we have both been very honest an open about it with each other
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So i actually met her today. We are not getting back together. We are just going to be friends but we both said never say never. Im actually okay about it. Not sad or angry, just nice to know what is going on with my life.
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You are probably right Carus. But i will not know till i go. I think i would regret not taking the chance. I will start a thread when i go. I dont know what i want out of this meeting. So can only go and have fun.
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Broke nc today to wish my ex a merry Christmas. When i sent the message i didnt really care if she replied. She did and we had a nice chat but i dont think i need nc anymore. I feel good. I never completed the 30 days but i did have very limited contact for around three months. Think most i made it to was 24 days. Its true what they say, time does heal. Im actually meeting my ex next friday just to hand out.
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Day 4. Another good day
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Day 3. Had a good day even though it was very dull. Bout sums it up
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Day 2. So i find myself in a strange situation. One of my female co workers who also happens to be a very good friend of mine was telling me how attracted to me she is. She is not a relationship person and was offering me a fwb situation. Although i find her extremely attractive i declined, just not ready yet. It has helped me put a few things in perspective that other people do find me attractive and i will not be alone forever.
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Im gonna try I will definitely let her reach out to me though, im not gonna be the one to do it. Hope you get some answers your looking for my man, you deserve to be happy :).
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I think i do still want her back. She said we should talk out the relationship but i said we cannot do that over text and she said lets meet then. I said message me when you want to and am gonna leave it there. But day 1. Am feeling good, got down for like 30 seconds then bounces right back.
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The guy she works with lives at my brothers house so she was picking up work keys. I was getting ready for my work party so happened to be looking really good. Yes we did. Had a chat for about 15mins and it was good. A hug goodbye and she messaged me like 10mins later saying she hopes i have a good time. I did answer saying thank you and enjoy work but back to nc now
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Soooooo broke no contact. Ran into her at my brothers house of all places. You know what i actually feel good. Not really worrying about anything. Heart is ticking along fine. Well back to day 1.
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Not gonna lie, does make you feel good about your self. I've lost about 5 stone in total from my heaviest but about 2 stone since the breakup
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The one thing that hasnt suffered and how much weight i lost.