People who routinely share with me lifestyle changes they need to and plan to make - one friend in particular - around my age, mom of teens. Getting a part time job, exercising, eating better, reading more. Then just as fast the lame excuses as to why it’s not possible or when she will implement the plan - meaning timing “after (spring break/ baseball season / graduation etc) “. Never has not one plan. I NEVER comment or give input. She did ask once - how to start a job search. Seemed appreciative of my suggestions. I never followed up and also told her point blank I wasn’t going to give input on starting an exercise routine since it’s so individual. So I stay in my lane and silent and simply and blandly acknowledge her plan. And make no comments about my way of doing things lest it imply judgment. And. Really annoying all the talk and none of the walk.