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  1. You silly girl! Hey I hope you feel better soon, I see your post here. In time it gets easier. You'll bounce back, and who knows, you might have contact again. Too early to tell.
  2. Pssttttt..... Wanna date? Lol Omg Mitch you're the age of my ex! Anyway, I like what you wrote here. I'm raising a 14 year old girl alone. I admire your strength, and not letting her words break you. The old saying "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" is so true. Keep on doing you, you'll be okay.
  3. Silly! Too bad you're sooooooo far away, I'd have you laughing every day, your cheeks would hurt from smiling so much! I'd take you out, be your wing girl, shove you under a chick to heal your broken heart(ya so it's a temporary fix, but hey, you'd be thanking meeeee) !!!!! Would you believe I've introduced three couples, who all ended up marrying the person I set them up with? Why I can't pick better for myself, I'll never understand, lmaooooooo :nightmare:
  4. Good point! As someone who has taken an exe's back, it's been after both of us were with someone else. Maybe that's the key? Date others , break up, and return for round two?
  5. That's just it---- if they want to, they will. Forget these strategies and wasting money on coaches and psychics and casting love spells(sadly I know women who've tried, that's real desperation to trick your mind into believing it will work). I don't even like NC, but it does help for the dumpee to heal because being in contact gives false hope and prolongs pain. When the dumper finally gets curious about it, and they reach out, they either secure you by throwing breadcrumbs to have you as backup, or try to work it out. It would be great to hear more success stories, wouldn't it? The friend zone sucks when you're the one dumped. You didn't fail, at least you worked on yourself, so consider that a gain.
  6. Aww, you have a good heart. Most men run when a female cries. Whatever you decide, I hope it all works out in a way that is acceptable for you.
  7. The friend zone.....are you okay with this? I had to turn down my exes friendship(more like FWB). Back to NC. Please protect your heart. You know what's best for you, but do you think enough time has passed? I worry for you(ahh such a mom, lol, but most likely younger than you, but hey...whatever) :)
  8. He reached out around Thanksgiving, and then not again? Do yourself a favor and keep NC. The holidays are not to be used as an excuse to contact an ex.
  9. Ughhhh if only I had dipped my fingers in cement so as not to reply to you! Here we are.....the sex hookup. I so badly want to, I'm not ignoring you, I'm making a decision. I don't know what to say, do I tell you I want to but tell you I might not keep emotions out of it? I knew we'd end up here. What do you want? I want to break my phone right now.
  10. So you text me after almost three months of radio silence. Our conversations are good, friendly, and meaningful. We definitely bonded in our time together but still---- no mention of meeting up. This is okay, to see you will set me back. Talking to you hurts a little, I'll never tell you this. You throw it out there you're not seeing anyone, why? I can't ask you. You also throw it out there you're not having sex. Then you hint to our sexcapades which were all more adventurous than the last. Is this what you miss? The freedom, the lack of inhibition, the fact you loved to dominate sexually and I let you? What are you doing? I don't want to know who you were with, but I know it was someone, and then it didn't work out. I feel it my gut. This kills me because damn I know better than to talk to you. It's your business what you've done and will do, but why did you reappear? I won't ask you, ever. I won't say I miss you, I won't say I want to see you. I won't cave. You won't either. I give advice and don't follow my own. Ugh you make it too hard. The attraction was off the charts and you felt it too. What happened? Trust issues with you, you being jealous, Why? I did nothing. You just couldn't trust me. I hate you for that. I hate your ex wife had an affair, I hate when you divorced her she moved in with him because she broke you to the very core of your being. You always said I was too sexy, too sexual, too much attention. You still indirectly throw this at me. Why? Tonight you said I probably have guys lined up. It's hard not to get defensive, that's why I ignore it. I will never be able to prove to you that I was and am a faithful person. I remind you of your ex, the one the guys want. That is so unfair to say to me. Why ? Ughhh I am going to try my hardest to not contact you, I don't know what you want. I just know my love for you is still there and the way we can pick up right where we left off scares me, because we aren't getting back together. Trying to date, still can't connect like that amazing instant attraction we had. I hate you for stirring that up in me that now I am not feeling that same way with anyone. This is torture. I deserve to be trusted, you want me but don't trust me. There's nothing here then. How did you get this hold on me? This was supposed to be fun, then feelings got involved. Feelings that I hadn't had in years. Makes it so much harder. Scared to not find it again. I miss lying on your chest, I miss opening my eyes and catching you looking at me with that sparkle. I miss it all. You took away the immense anger and pain by contacting me, yet it's creeping back in . Not the intense anger, but the pain. I don't get how you loved my confidence but then say I use it to get attention. That isn't true. You can handle confidence. I know you can. You should be proud to have eye candy, that's what you seek out, yet you then get annoyed when guys look and approach. Why? This is your own insecurity. I can't understand how anyone so successful, handsome, charming , affectionate, funny, sweet,and classy can have little confidence, because that's how I see you. When's the next time? I don't wait for my phone to light up, but damn you make you smile when it does. No, I can't do this. Yeah, you know I will though. I'm proud of myself for not saying how I feel about you. I'll keep you guessing. But I have the feeling you know. I'm wise, you won't play me for sex or casual relationship. Are we friends? I don't even know. I'm not holding out for hope, we are done. Where this goes, I guess time will tell. Whether we talk or not, we live our lives, as we should. I just wish I could find that same attraction again. Talking to you isn't the issue, I couldn't find it not talking to you either. I never thought we'd end up this way when we met by chance. I ignored you! Lol We met again, by chance, and the attraction began. I wish I could go back and ignore you again. But then I would have missed out on so much. So many great times. You were patient and stuck it out with my ex stalking us, the harassment, the lies, the hot mess I became because I feared him. You'd drive around patiently trying to lose him on our trail. You'd find secluded places with no windows so we could actually enjoy a nice dinner without being watched. You were patient. Understanding. Compassionate. You were my strength, my rock. And always there. Oh, as I just wrote this, I get it now. My attachment to you justbecame crystal clear. Now I cry. Ugh..... Okay, this is why I will always love you.
  11. Yup, too long! Especially because you didn't have a history together. I have my first love I can still go back to, except he lives all the way across the US and I'd have to move my daughter there, and I don't want to uproot her right now. Plus he comes back to visit, and while he was my first love and first everything, I'm not feeling in love anymore. On paper though, he's perfect. I honestly can't say anything negative, he's successful and a real sweetheart. The only thing is that damn wandering eye of his, lol. The funny part is I was on YouTube and watched this dumb video about what age you'd meet your soulmate, according to your zodiac sign. I LMAO because boom!! 16! The age I met him lol I don't put much weight into things like that, but when I watched another video on guys age to meet soulmate according to zodiac sign, it was 18... His age when we met. I often wonder if he still lived here if we would have been together. He did want to marry me. I honestly believe that attraction could rekindle, but long distance....nope. Not happening.
  12. A success story! Congrats! I wish you both a lifetime full of happiness and beautiful memories
  13. If he doesn't feel anything, why bother? They haven't been friends in three years. Is there a point to trying to rekindle it now? He already has the mindset not to want to, so he's wasting his time here. Why she appeared--is it because she's lonely, not finding better , wanting to settle down now? I'd question her true motive.
  14. Hugs to you! It's like I wrote this myself. The chemistry, the dating. Not connecting with anyone else. I so understand this. It's what I miss too, the ease of the connection, the instant spark, it's so rare, and difficult to find, but have faith! Keep trying, when you least expect it, you will find a greater love.
  15. I'm sorry this happened to you. He's a jerk. Emotions are not toys. Perhaps he just wanted to see if he still could get you back, because most likely his ego was bruised by you not contacting him, and he wanted to see what you were up to. Don't let him do it again. He may try. Be strong and practice self love. My ex was playing games with me too, see me in public, be affectionate, then no calls nor texts. They lose respect for you when they know they can have you back. Mine is now deleted. It's been a week and a half no contact, and even if he tries, I won't reply. I'm done looking like the fool.
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