Jump to content

valavoo

Silver Member
 View Profile  See their activity

  • Posts

    439

  • Joined

Recent Profile Visitors

The recent visitors block is disabled and is not being shown to other users.

valavoo's Achievements

Rising Star

Rising Star (9/14)

  • First Post
  • Collaborator
  • Conversation Starter
  • Week One Done
  • One Month Later

Recent Badges

3

Reputation

  1. valavoo
    Ahhhh sorry Doosha. You're right. I do have a friend that got back together with his girlfriend multiple times. She'd always break up with him and come back within a week. However, I don't really think their relationship was healthy and she finally seems to have broken up with him for good. I don't think they actually tried to fix their issues at all ;o;. I firmly believe they would have stayed together if they'd tried to communicate/work through the issues.
  2. valavoo
    Same!!! There’s one person I want very badly to be with but the rest of them...ugh. >_>
  3. valavoo
    Oh I'm totally with you SweetGirl! Sorry if I came off a little harsh XD. Changes have to be made most definitely or you're literally going to go back to the thing that made it fall apart in the first place...but I don't think being 100% different people is (always) the answer. I don't think people change 100%. They can change a lot, but people often don't do a complete 180. It's just not as black and white/cookie cutter as what people seem to think. The stories here and the constant stories in real life (and not posted here) say otherwise.
  4. valavoo
    This is literally wrong lol. People are of course getting back together! But not everyone wants to post it to a forum like this. This forum’s set of advice is pretty much “get over it, block them, and move on.” Even when people’s exes do come around again if they ask on this forum everyone assumes the ex is just looking for sex and to not trust them. Despite it being a GBT forum, most people will tell you to just not unless a very specific set of standards are met. It’s really stupid. Honestly searching for help on an Internet forum of people who don’t know you was not the best choice I made and deeply regret some of the decisions I made because of it. Anyway here’s a GBT story because I happen to peruse this site every once in a while still. My brother and his girlfriend had been together since quite young. They broke up for a while (he with her) because everyone was essentially telling him that people shouldn’t ever date one person forever, especially a man. So he broke it off and tried doing just that. Later he realized he basically just listened to toxic masculine culture and also listened to others’ opinions over his own feelings. They reconciled, were together for a bit, had a kid, got married, and had another kid. Super cute.
  5. valavoo
    I told myself I would do this but screw it. Megabump!
  6. valavoo
    Casually bumps this topic
  7. valavoo
    No offense friend but I'm confused. You're back together with her but you're in a thread for GBT stories telling people not to want to get back together?
  8. valavoo
    You should post your own thread. This one is for success stories
  9. valavoo
    I feel walls in my heart coming up slowly. Come back and tear them down.
  10. valavoo
    I'd love to hear some more relevant stories. Especially if they're about long distance! I actually have one for once! My new friend told me his love story. They got together and were together for about four ish years. Then, they broke up (he broke up with her). He said there might be a chance to get back together in the future but that it would be best to move on. They went NC for 5 or 6 months? I've no idea how the girl handled it. However, my friend was talking to another friend about settling down and realized he wanted his girlfriend back. They began LC, which turned into contact, which turned into them getting back together. All of this was done long distance and I think they only saw each other in person right before they got back together. It seems to be working for them now.
  11. valavoo
    Ignore those posts LOL
  12. valavoo
    The random text you sent me about the game we both play. It was so random...out of the blue, even you said it. I need you to understand that meaningless texts hurt me more than they hurt you. You do not understand how much I wanted to hear you ask me how I'm doing or talk about something that really, truly has meaning. Perhaps we could even figure out what went wrong. But you won't. You just let it all sit. God I wish I could tell you.
  13. valavoo
    Do any of you lovely (lucky????) individuals know what made your exes go from being cold and distant (NC or whatever) to contacting you again? What goes through the dumpers head to make that happen? Love to hear some stories or theories.
  14. valavoo
    Every time you get on chat and don't bother to talk to me hurts.
  15. valavoo
    Tonight i found out some pretty earth-shattering news, and I really needed your support. I don't want to message you about it because I think that would be awkward for you, but I really am missing the support side of our relationship right now.
×
×
  • Create New...