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Thank you all for your opinions and very helpful they were too. Just a side note That person I wrote about previously has gone. He is not like that anymore. Thanks again 🙂

Yes thank you. I don't mind the space issue because I love my own time too. It's when friends talk about the night out they had with him and I know nothing about it. I then feel silly and left I the dark because they know and I didnt. Yes you are correct that I would like to feel a bit more up to speed. I'm a big overthinker and so I needed to ask on here if I was being neurotic as I know how much my mind overthinks! 😌 Thank.you

I'm not saying it's an issue. I was asking if it was normal and OK. I don't have a problem with it. I was just wondering what other people thought about it. Example: At the weekend he told me about a night out he had in October and I knew nothing about it. I felt a little silly that he only just mentioned it you see

Thank you that answers my question perfectly. I don't want him on a leash, I would never do that to anyone. I believe in having our own space etc. Thank you for your answer Battya 33

This has only been like 2 times he has done this. Its not a regular thing. If we haven't made plans together and I'm at home doing my own stuff should I expect him to call me and say he is off out?

No I'm not waiting to make plans. I'm just wondering if it is reasonable for me to be cross with him if he went out without telling me. I feel a bit put out and I'm wondering if I'm being silly and if it is reasonable for me to pull him up on this? As we do not live together should I be expecting him to tell me he is going out?

I was wondering should I expect him to tell me is he is going out?

Yes it is the same man.

I have been together with my boyfriend for two years. We do not live together. My boyfriend sometimes goes out out and "forgets" to tell me. Its not until I call him that I find out he has gone out. No I'm wondering if we should be courteous and tell each other if we are going out or not? I never gave it consideration until he mentioned the other day he went to a friend's party at the pub back in October and this is the first I'm hearing about it. Going out= pubs and clubs