emptychipbag

You could either continue looking for what you want or, like a lot of people, just settle for whatever you can get and hope it turns out okay. I would recommend becoming a loner if the failure to find a girl starts to make you depressed. But I don't know if someone can just become a loner,.. or if it's wired in their brain from years of social isolation and ineptitude.

I just turned 26 and I've never left home. I've had the same job for 5 years and it pays well I guess. I have no idea if I could afford to live on my own. I don't have any friends,.. so the roommate idea is out. I don't have any plans to move out, actually. I never wanted to go to college because I don't want to "be anything". I'm not a goal oriented person. I'm just trying to enjoy life with as little effort and stress as possible until I die. (and I hope that happens before I turn 30)

Being alone forever really isn't that bad. I've never had a girlfriend and I probebly never will and I'm a loner anyway so it doesn't bother me much. Best of all,.. I don't have to be self consious about my body because the only person that will ever see me naked is a coroner! my advice is to just enjoy being alone and don't even try.

me too. Every girl that I get to know and like I find out through someone else that she's got a boyfriend or husband or fiance'. I've also noticed that the only girls that are attracted to me are the ones I don't like.

I thought Catcher in The Rye was "inspiring".

Porn isn't a guaranteed addiction. Simply doing something regularly is not an addiction. (this same thing is true about masturbation.) You can only cheat on a significant other with another person,.. not a video or magazine.

This has always happened to me ever since forever. Even on the phone. Way back in the early 90's I had a good friend who had moved to another city and the only way for us to communicate was by writing letters. I always had lots to say and an average letter from me was around one page front and back. But when they replied an average letter from them was only a few sentences. And they usually never answered any questions if i asked them. The letters they would send me would read like they didn't even read my letters. And ever since I started e-mailing people in high-school,.. I always would have several paragraphs on various topics that I knew where of interest and they would either not reply until a couple of months later and only write a couple of sentences. Someone in this topic said that e-mail isn't used for actual conversation,.. but just for "keeping in touch". If that's the truth then what a freakin' waste of technology. We might as well be using smoke signals if all we're going to use our instant communication for is "hi, lol lol lol lol lol LOL L-O-freakin' L!!!!) But also,.. even when I would talk to friends on the phone I would be the only one with any thing to say or any kind of opinion,.. and that would be when they called me!! That's ironic because if I'm talking to people in person I'm very quiet.

I do nothing but play games and watch dvds now. I used to spend most of my time drawing and writing and making comic books for fun and it was also my life goal to be a pubished comic artist,.... (i had been drawing and writing and making comics since I was about 10 years old and I'm 25 now.) But I've lost all interest in doing anything artistic now. Of course that's because my life dream has been shredded by general disinterest in the comic book medium. All I wanted to do was creater owned stuff,... and there's no market for that stuff anymore. Even Marvel and DC comics only sell about 10% of what they used to. So now my art desk has a computer on it and I just play games and stuff. I don't feel guilty about playing games. I do miss that life goal that I had and the enthusiasm and the fun I had being creative and making comics,...

Ha ha.... Every girl I'm ever attracted to has a boyfriend. So I don't even bother anymore since their all taken 99% of the time.

I'm one of those nice guys and I talk to girls that I meet all the time. I just can't tell at all if they're interested or not. I'm completely clueless and dumb when it comes to all that. I just don't have the energy to act a certain way other than how I naturally am in order to fool a girl into liking me.

Porn is like chocolate. Even if someone is in a relationship and has access to sex with their partner,.. why wouldn't they still like porn? Just because someone has a partner doesn't mean that they won't feel like masturbating sometimes either. It's all normal,.. depending on how conservative and religious/superstitious they are.

Dude,... I'm 25 and I'm constantly living in the past all the time. I actually still look 18 or 19 (that's what people tell me) plus I still dress and act and do the things that 18 year olds do. I very strongly miss my teen years. I'm always daydreaming about them and reliving memories. I'm only 5 years away from being 30!! Now that's scary! I can't imagine even being that old! I don't ever want to be that old! I wish I had videotaped most of my teen years and I'd be re-watching them over and over as that would be the closest thing to a time machine I could get. I was a teen in the 90's and that was a decade of euphoric bliss and joy that I don't think I'll ever experience again. And part of it was because I was a teen with no obligations or responsibility and with dreams and goals and I was able to just have fun and enjoy life. (plus the state of the world was much better back then too,.. and the US economy was booming and things were expanding and everything was exciting and I was discovering new things and I had not a worry in the world.) But you're still 18!! You still have one year of your teens left (not including the rest of your 18th year.) You need to spend some time having fun and doing some crazy things!

I'm a 25 year old guy and I can relate to you. Except that I've recently been having conversations with women I'm interested in and I'm getting much better at talking to them and not being nervous and pent up. But I still can't manage to try to initiate dates or even phone number exchanges,.. partially because I'm a loner who really can't be comfortable unless I'm physically alone in an area by myself. So although I'd love to have a romantic relationship with a woman,.. my loner nature would ruin it. But just realize that there are guys out there just like you.

The one time I was rejected,.. (because it was the one chance I had to have a girlfriend) it was especially confusing because she didn't just tell me I wasn't her type or whatever,.. instead we made plans for another date and she promptly cut off contact afterwards. (which I think is even more hurtful because I wasn't even worth being told that it wouldn't work?) I had to not do anything that reminded me of her,.. in order to get over it. That was hard because lots of stuff reminded me of her. I basically had to do new things and keep my mind occupied.

The question really isn't specific enough. You seem to be an over achiever,.. which can be good in a career and with goals,... but it also means that you're never satisfied, which can lead to feelings of being unfulfilled in life no matter how hard you try. Me,.. I'm not ambitious at all. I have no goals or plans. I give up on everything at the first sign of difficulty. Completely unsatisfied and unfulfilled with life. So are you unhappy because you set your own goals too high?