Mylolita, thank you so much for your opinion and sharing part of your personal life with me. It sounds like you have an outstanding relationship with your husband 🥰
So that's the thing, my partner does make me happy, very happy. And as I stated previously in another post this is definitely the healthiest relationship that I've been in. He checks all of the boxes, or most of them. Of course there are some minor exceptions but those are definitely things that I can live with and they are not deal breakers.
If he all of a sudden came to the realization that he was in love with me, I really don't know what would change. He's very attentive, communicative, honest and we are very compatible and all aspects of a relationship. That is one question that I ask myself; if I am happy, and he makes me happy, does it really matter if he is in love with me or not?
I think I will let things lie for a few months and revisit this with him at that point. I think an important question to ask him is, if he does not feel "in love" with me, where does he see the relationship going. Then perhaps I can decide at that point what I want to do, either continue with the relationship or go our separate ways.