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  1. HEY! I consider myself a westernized Asian girl but I still watch dramas!!!
  2. We are no longer a couple because...we are no longer in a relationship. Simple as that.
  3. My brother recently broke up with a girl just like that. She was very quiet and even when she did speak up it wasn't of much substance. He eventually had to break up with her. I think what your boyfriend is probably looking for is some insight into your mind. For instance, a hobby or maybe something you are truly passionate about. Something to talk to you about and share with each other.
  4. Unfortunately, through my own experiences, there's really no such thing as a "break." Breaks usually lead up to a break-up. It's best to just break it off and if you feel like giving it another go, then start a relationship again. As for him putting up his profile so soon, don't dwell on it. You guys are "broken-up" for all intent and purposes. He's probably seeing what else is out there and if the grass is greener on the other side. This is what you should do as well. Don't dwell on him and if he's going to want you back. Look pass your blinders and see the world out there. Maybe afterwards, you wouldn't even want him back even if he asked you.
  5. Shaving is a good alternative but you have to do it daily or every other day. With waxing you only have to do it once every three weeks and in addition to that your results are a lot smoother. I noticed that after I have had many waxes, the hair grew back much slower, softer and lighter. I also feel fine after each waxing, there really isn't much of an adjustment time. I rather suffer through 5-10 mins of waxing then to shave every day.
  6. Hi Prenkle, Which guy are you referring to: the 29 year old or the 40? My answer would differ based off of your answer.
  7. It's natural to feel that way. It's the jealousy in you coming out to play. Just make sure it doesn't consume you or the relationship. I would say most guys and girls feel that way. It's the insecurity in human nature. Just remind yourself that he's with you now and has chosen to be with you and that's all that should matter.
  8. Okay, based off of your words, it seems like you have already made your choice but you're afraid of owning up to it. You're afraid of losing your BF because he's safe and is your "safety net" in case something goes wrong with the other guy. If you read what you wrote you will realize that all the qualities you wrote about your BF are qualites of friendship not a lover. If this is the case, then please let your BF go sooner than later so that he may have a chance in finding happiness with another.
  9. Danica, are you sure you're not confusing guilt with love? Seems like you can't let go of your previous BF because of all the history you guys had together and the fact that you hurt him so much. Don't be with someone because you feel guilty or is sympathetic to their pain. You're doing one of these guys a huge disservice here. Figure out your feelings and find the one you love. Let the other guy go, so that they can go find someone else to share their love.
  10. There is nothing to worry about. In some young women, their cycle will be irregular. Stress can also affect a women's cycle and cause a delay or acceleration. Please practice safe sex (ie. condom) so you won't have to worry about this in the future.
  11. Manipulating them to come back to you isn't the way you would want them to come back. Eventually they will figure it out and leave you again. They have to come back on their own and only because they really want to. When I was the dumper, I eventually began to miss him but that was way after the fact and even though I remember all the good things and miss him, I did not want him back.
  12. No sense in beating yourself up over something that you have no control over now. It's over and done with. You have a 2.0. So, what now? Focus on what you can do to improve your future rather than dwell on the past. What's done is done. It's time to figure out what to do to rectify that error.
  13. That's not true at all. For example, Baruch College in NYC is a really good community college with many elite alumni. Besides, it's better to graduate with a 4.0 at a community college than to graduate with a 2.3 at Yale. There are a lot of people who choose to go to community college instead of private for the cost savings. If you make great grades in a community college, you will be able to apply for an Ivy League grad school. I know a lot of people who went to community college knowing that they will achieve a 3.8+ gpa so that they can save money and go to a really good graduate school later on.
  14. I don't know where you're located but I believe in the US you can enroll in community college if you can't get accepted into a college of your choice. "In North America, community colleges operate under a policy of "open admission". That is, anyone with a high school diploma or GED may attend, regardless of prior academic status or college entrance exam scores." Don't give up hope. Go to college no matter what you grades are and do well because once you go to college you're going in on a clean slate. Your future employer will not ask for your HS gpa but rather your college gpa and merits.
  15. I agree with Jen, as long as I knew about it and it doesn't interfere with our sex life, I don't have a problem with that at all.
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