RedWolf

Thanks for all your replies! I'll let everyone know how it goes!

Hey man I feel your pain! I would let her know one last time that your there for her anytime she would need you. While she is dealing with whatever is happening with her friends you should be out making sure that you know what you want. Take some time to truly experience other things in life. I know it sounds weird, but if you have been in her life everyday she might not realize how much help you are or how much she needs you. Take some time off bud! It sounds like you deserve it! Good Luck! -RedWolf-

So theres this girl that I've known for about 2 months and we started to date about a week ago. We have spent every night together since then (nothing sexual mind you). We both agree that we would like to have a relationship but at the moment should just date. I have never actually dated anyone, I usally skip right into the relationship. So I decided to try it out. Anyways, last night we both went to a party together and she got smashed. Her ex bf shows up and to make a long story short I end up leaving and they went off and did their thing. Now she told me not to worry about this guy when we were talking before. So now I'm pretty upset cause I had a lot in common with this girl and I got pushed away in an evening by her ex. Then tonight rolls around and I log on to MSN and she starts talkin to me. She says she really likes what we have but she didnt think I would get upset cause we were only "dating" I told her how hurt I was and she apologized. So now she wants to keep dating and I told her I didnt want to unless we were dating exclusivly(sp?) Any ways she agrees and things are for the most part ok. We have plans for tomorrow night. I find myself being paranoid and a bit untrusting of her. Before we got offline I did ask her a couple times if she was positivly sure this is what she wanted, she said yes. She also did say she would talk to her ex and get him to understand the situation, but also said that I shouldnt get upset if they wanted to hang out. I've been burned pretty badly in the past by stuff like this...Anyone have any advice about this? I really want to believe her but I'm not sure where to start. How should I conduct myself tonight? Any help would be welcome. Thanks in advance! -RedWolf-

Some people want all the benefits of a relationship without actually havin one. Some people are just like that. If you want something serious he's probably not the one, atleast for now. Good luck!

I agree with caliboy. Run! Run far far away! It's not worth the stress believe me!

Shes leading you on. Get away from her and stay away no matter how much it hurts. I would get your ring back too. Just get away from her, you know shes using you. Good luck!

Leave him! Your relationship will end up hurting your baby sometime. Are you sure your going to keep this baby? If you really wanted to work something out with him (though you shouldn't IMHO) you should give it up for adoption or if you wanted to, abort it. Just try to watch out for your future. Best of luck to ya!

Life is 90% how you react to things. Just hang in there and think about how he would have wanted you to live a happy life. I wish you the best!

It is possible. Go find out asap! I wish you the best!

That has to be the stupidest run on sentance ever! If I were a mod I would delete this steaming pile right now! Btw turn off the caps dammit!

Move on! Throw away his things, get some new hobbies/friends and just forget about it. Your wasting away over something stupid. If you love him you should respect his independance and just drop it.

That just isnt right. She should know it makes you uncomfortable. I think this is just her lack of compassion for you. She might not be as great as you first thought. Theres always something about girls who only have guy friends...anyways goodluck and I hope things turn out alright!

You will feel better eventually. I have heard that it takes roughly the same amount of time you were with someone to get over them completely! I know you probably have heard this before, but your only 15. You also have tons of other stuff going on within your life and your body that is new. Give it time...you dont need to have a replacement! Good luck!

Everyone looses it once in a while. Try to let the small things pass. There are some great books that I have read to help me out. Also having friends to fall back on is great! I'm here also if you want to talk, or are interested in one of those books....Good luck!

Once I gave a cheater another chance, and I regreted it. Leave em in the dust...It's not like you could forget about it anyways...Good luck!