zapdragon

...this is an interesting thread. I knew that I needed to break up from my then girlfriend for a while - I needed to sort some personal stuff out, which now, after 5 months is actually done. We have been in touch almost everyday, because we were such great friends anyway, so it did not make sense to draw too much of a distance for no good reason. We also have a business together, which is doing quite well. We work as a creative team and very well together. Recently though, say the past week and a bit, I have started to feel attracted to her again. In fact I feel like I am falling in love with her - not again - but for the first time. I'm a bit confused about all of this now. I was wondering if anyone had some wise words to impart or something along those lines. And does anyone have any idea that almost 'suddenly' you see someone you lived with for some years, in a totally new light? I'd be interested to continue this discussion. Thanks in advance.

If you can answer the question; "Do I actually love here?" ... and then base your decision on that answer, whatever it is that must happen , should happen. Every moment is opportunity to decide - with heart and mind - that's your conscience. Use it. That is what it is there for anyway. Good Luck!