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    Doesn't 5.5 inches fall within the "average" size range? I'm positive your girlfriend is fine with what you have since she's still with you.
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    I'm getting antsy because i can't wait to experiment more with him and try the positions posted in this thread but he went to a conference this week and i have to wait. My boyfriend and I are so honest and open with each other and that's why the relationship with my boyfriend is so different from any relationship or friendship I have had with any guy. No wonder we like having sex with the lights on.
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    Thanks everyone
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    You haven't met the right woman yet. Don't give up hope. I believed i would never stay with a small guy if i met one because I always slept with very large guys in the past. I didn't go out looking for large guys but as luck would have it those were the guys i always found or who found me. But my current boyfriend is out of this world. I've never cared or felt this way about anyone. I love him so much that i don't care about the size of his penis because i want things to work. You too will find a woman who cares about you so much that the size of your penis won't matter. You can make a woman reconsider the penis myth just like my boyfriend changed my mind. I can imagine guys would not want to hear "get better at fourplay to make up for your size". That's like a man telling a woman "Give me lots of oral because my penis can't feel anything in your airplane hanger vagina". Have you tried to build a relationship before having sex? I cared alot about my boyfriend before we had sex and the sex felt like icing on the cake. I knew that if anything wasn't perfect in the bedroom we could fix it because everything else about our relationship was marvelous.
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    No we haven't tried anal. We tried positions where my boyfriend is behind me but he kept sliding out.
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    My boyfriend has a small thin penis and I can't orgasm when we have sex. He's a dream at using his fingers and mouth but I want to feel his penis too. If I do kegel exercises will it make me smaller so he can hit my g spot with his penis? Does anyone know any positions that will feel good if the guy has a small penis?
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    Thanks Skippy. I finally took down the wall and I'm terrified, happy, and hopeful. My experience with my ex has made me stronger and more skeptical of guys intentions. but my boyfriend is making me less skeptical of all guys. I still get scared but now I'm trying not to deny or push aside my feelings for him .
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    I desperately wanted to be committed to my ex but he didn't feel the same way. I thought he felt like I felt about the relationship when we talked about our relationship and based on his actions. I was terribly wrong. I don't want to be wrong about this assumption and then be hurt again! My instincts told me to stay away from this man but I thought he was irresistible. I wish I followed my instincts instead of ignoring them I don't feel these same instincts with my new guy. I feel like I should be giving him a chance but it's hard for me to do that because I'm worried he's going to mistreat me when I least expect it.
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    Your thoughts are exactly like my own thoughts! I've been releasing my control a little bit but I get so scared everytime I release a little bit more. What if I lose too much control and he takes off and leaves me hurt? I've taken your advice and I'm giving him more of a chance. I would hate to miss out on the chance that he really is wonderful and then risk the chance of someone else coming along and snatching him up. I don't want to be lonely forever. That's not the alternative I want.
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    I can't help wondering if he's playing a game or putting up a facade because no one can be that great. He keeps asking me how I feel about our relationship and I can't answer the question. I'm scared that once I tell him how much I care he will pull the rug from under my feet and leave me in pain. I want to get rid of the wall but I don't know how to do it because I missed telling him so many times when we talked about things and if I bring it up again he'll get frustrated because he'll think the conversation will end in the same way.
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    I've been dating a man for a few months. He's honest, caring, handsome, respectful, and nice. He's everything I could ever want in a man. We started dating several months after my ex and I broke up. I'm over my ex and I truly don't care about him anymore. My ex hurt me and I'm scared to open my heart to anyone else no matter how great the person is. I'm always testing my current guy. He's starting to get tired of convincing me how much he cares about me. But I care about him so much and I don't want to lose him and both of our friends tell me I'm going to hurt him if I continue with this behavior. Is it wise for me to keep this wall up around my heart? Can you make yourself not fall in love with someone? What should I do?
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    Maybe he's changed. I do hope you're right.
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    It would be nice if he did that. But I have no doubt he wants to see me. Whenever he sees me he follows me around. A couple weeks ago he followed me around a huge grocery store for 45 minutes. He kept saying "It's funny how we keep bumping into each other." then he tried to strike up at least a half dozen conversations with me. I was trying hard to avoid him because I wanted NC. He even followed me down the tampon aisle.](*,) I know he was not buying tampons. His excuse was that he couldn't find trashbags.
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    You perfectly explained why I don't want to forget the time my ex and I spent together. There were good times and there were bad times and I told myself that's how I do or do not want things to be in my next relationship since I experienced what those times felt like. I'm don't feel hurt anymore. I'm not angry anymore. But there's still a fondness for him in my heart. That's why I believed I was over him. I thought the fondness is ok. I don't want to care about the past but I don't want to forget the past so I can care less about it. I like your 1st idea because my ex would not offer sound advice.
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    Thanks. I am doing so much better than I was 2 months ago but some feelings are still there. I didn't know I should feel ambivilence when I'm over an ex. I understand now. My friends weren't right in saying its ok to still have feelings because I remember they all get worked up when they run into exes. I really care about my new boyfriend and we were good friends before we got into a relationship. Maybe I need to tell him the truth and see if we can take things slowly. If he's hurt then we can go back to being friends until I'm over the ex just as long as he's happy. I don't want to hurt him in any way.
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