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  1. TiredOfDating
    ack, was doing so good! then he reached out to me last week. and we're still talking. but it's still all ambiguous.
  2. TiredOfDating
    I broke NC again today. there's another thread in this forum about still maintaining contact with ex's, and I'm following the advice given there. Always keeping communication fun and positive, no clinging, no begging. just always fun. The last 2 times we've texted, it's been comfortable, none of the awkwardness we had during our break period.
  3. TiredOfDating
    Day 20, round 2. I'd promised myself I'd quit keeping track. But I find myself missing him again lately. Its been just 7 weeks since that awful dinner. I hate how desperate I sound in my own head. I wonder what the hell I did wrong. I supported him without fail, loved him without conditions. And it wasn't enough.
  4. TiredOfDating
    Date didn't go well. Not attracted to him. He wasn't much of a conversationalist. Very awkward. But I got that first date after break up out of the way!
  5. TiredOfDating
    Did she reply? It was around the 20 day or so mark that I broke as well. I think we all are guilty of it. Don't be hard on yourself. Just start all over. Every day is a new day.
  6. TiredOfDating
    Is there someone you can ask about him and his well being?
  7. TiredOfDating
    This is where I'm at with the guy I've been talking to. I was on Tinder and POF probably the same night as the dinner with the ex in which I finally ended the limbo for myself. A few I'd like or swipe right but no real interest. there was one other guy I talked to but wasn't really into it. He could have been fun, but I wasn't ready yet. and that was like 2 weeks ago. I really think breaking NC last friday actually helped me get to a moving on point. I've been talking to this new guy just since last Saturday and we have a date set up for this Sunday. At first I was a bit hesitant, but the more days go buy, the better I feel about it. He seems excited. And I deserve someone who's excited to see me. I've already decided I'm no longer going to track how many days of NC.
  8. TiredOfDating
    day 5 round 3. funny, I feel like reaching out friday night was the best thing possible I could have done to finally let go. but I've felt that way before and it doesn't last. hoping this time is different.
  9. TiredOfDating
    I do not have a January birthday....however between this forum and stuff I've heard in real life, January seems to have been a month where boyfriends/husbands seem to have lost their freaking minds! I've heard so many stories of people breaking up unexpectedly right after the first of the year. I bonded with this lady at Walmart who's husband told her that he was leaving and didn't love her anymore. and he hinted around at coming back a few weeks later, and then changed his mind again.
  10. TiredOfDating
    Back to Day 3. I have a date set up for Sunday. I don't expect this to amount to much but it will good for me.
  11. TiredOfDating
    It wasn't unpleasant at all. I don't know exactly what made me text him. He claims he had been wondering when/if he should reach out to me but wasn't sure how hurt & angry I'd still be. We talked about our kid's birthdays and then got on the topic of our exes. It went better than our conversations during that one month "break" period. I didn't whine or plead or act all sad. Just said I'd been good and working on some issues that I need to resolve. But no real relationship talk. And that's fine. I just needed some peace of mind. I'll let him make the next move.
  12. TiredOfDating
    Today would have been 24. But I gave in.
  13. TiredOfDating
    day 23. the nights are the worst. I hate that I think about him this much. and I hate that I wonder if he thinks about me at all. I started to write him an email. one I didn't intend to send, just to get my thoughts out. and then I read what I started to write, and I see that I'm still angry. So I need to get past that if there's any chance of a reconciliation.
  14. TiredOfDating
    Day 22. this sucks. I'm locked in this phase of really missing him. it's driving me nuts.
  15. TiredOfDating
    Day 19. Since I didn't technically talk to him, I am still counting vs starting over. But he has a new FB friend. She's a single mother. And now every horrible scenario is running through my head.
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