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SherrySher

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  1. I just wanted to quickly touch on the points made previous about multi-dating, or not multi-dating. If someone chooses to multi-date, or not multi-date, there could be a number of reasons behind it. It's really not for anyone to judge or criticize as we don't know why they chose what they did, and it's really not for us to know. We each navigate our own dating lives to what suits us the best. But each person makes their own decisions based on their own preferences and there is no right or wrong. As for choosing to date someone who multi-dates, or doesn't muti-date, it is totally down to your own personal preference. Some people don't mind at all, as they are multi-dating as well, and feel it's fine to have different options to find the best match. Others aren't comfortable with that and prefer they and their partner focus on one person at a time. Both cases are totally fine. It comes down to what is suitable for you and what isn't. If you get someone who wants to multi-date and someone who is a one person at a time, then it won't work.
  2. Honestly, her reply sounded good to me. 🙂 It's hard to tell what was going on with her right that second she replied. Was she rushing because something distracted her (doorbell ringing, notification went off, was feeling sleepy)...or who knows. Quite often texts can be misinterpreted because it is so hard to tell how someone is feeling right then due to lack of tone. The only way to know for certain, is to see how this second date goes. Usually after the second date, you can tell if you and this person are really vibing, or if you're not as into each other as you had hoped. Fingers crossed.
  3. Not in this day and age. That's an outdated point of view. Women are now totally okay with helping share the cost, or paying if she was the one who suggested a date. It's always nice when a man pays, but it goes both ways. Guys like to be treated well too!
  4. First text her, something like: "Hope you're doing well, I had a great time getting to know you, would love to meet up again." 2nd date, are there any small bars, lounges you could find where they would have a band playing music, something laid back on a Saturday night? Those kind of dates are nice because you can chat, and listen to the music too.
  5. I am all for equal paying on dates. It would be nice if she offered(good manners to at least offer), but I personally think whoever asked out whom, they are the ones who should pay. If she asks you out next time, she should be the one to pay. Although there are no set rules. If you're on a date and you both decide to go Dutch, that's cool too. I agree with other people who said that the first meet up should be something small, like coffee. You want to get to know this person, see if they are worthwhile to go on a more in depth date. Dinner and drinks sounds more like a 2-3 date.
  6. Thank you so much ❤️I've been sitting in front of the heater most of the day. It's nice and warm. 🥰
  7. Oh lord, I think as bad as this cold snap is, I can deal with it a bit better than that kind of heat. Hope you have a good AC unit.
  8. BS "that he genuinely did not know why he said that and he regretted it once he said it" Also BS
  9. You both sound very young, and you had mentioned that this is the first relationship for you both. You are both learning what is appropriate, and what isn't. How to deal with your own emotions, on all levels. What you will accept, and what is not acceptable. That being said, it's still glaringly obvious that he does view her in a sexual manner, and would be sexual with her if given the chance. I also don't think your friend has much respect for you at all, the way she is continuously crossing lines, and blurts things out whenever she pleases. She might think that it's fine to have zero filter on her sexual thoughts. But truth be told, it really does come down to becoming mature enough to know to respect those around you, to not blurt out inappropriate things, and to have self control. She has a lot of growing up to do, as does your boyfriend. You're the only one in this situation that is being reasonable and respectful.
  10. He is interested and yes, he is viewing her in a sexual manner. I was in nearly the exact same situation. My then bf kept telling me the same malarkey. Long story short, he and I broke up, (due to other reasons), but within a month he was sleeping with this woman he said was only a "friend, and a sister". I think each of us has gut instincts about it all, we just keep trying to fool ourselves or question our own worries. But truth be told, you made this post because you know something is not right. They are both telling you what you want to hear, but I would bet 100% that given the chance, they will sleep together.
  11. I'm not sure that a bunch of explanations would matter at this point. The only information that you need, is that this person doesn't respect you enough to speak to you openly, and honestly. They also have no problem dumping you as a friend, like yesterday trash, and again, not caring how it would affect you. This isn't a friend. Block, delete, move on.
  12. Either way, he's a grown man and no matter how weird, or unconventional it is, it's his life and his choices. Same way you wouldn't want your parents dictating to you how to do things, or when. Right?
  13. The mans happy, his wife accepts it best she can and in fact more than anything, enables it. They are doing what they both want. Let them be, maybe visit without expecting it to be meals since they don't have a regular schedule.
  14. Absolutely agree. This is their problem to solve and their marriage. Your Mom can choose to stay with him and put up with things, or she can decide to leave. It's her choice and her husband. If their arrangement is bothering you too much, then best you don't go over and get yourself all upset. If your Mom or your Dad complain, let them know that the hours your Dad keeps doesn't work for you. I can't see your Dad changing.
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