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Consistency equals confidence. Push-pull PUA games like suddenly not texting is flaky and considering it's a relationship in its infancy, it's better to be confident than resorting to games. As far as her so-called games, she's on vacation. They're feeling each other out and she doesn't seem "mercurial", just on vacation not well known. The most important thing is getting the ex baggage out of the picture and not superimposing it on to budding relationships. It's always better to lead with confidence.

Agree. Don't play games. Do whatever you've been doing and don't let insecurities govern your decisions with games.

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Unfortunately blurting out crushes makes people uncomfortable and especially since it's unrequited it makes you uncomfortable. If you want to stay friends, fine but what is he supposed to do with this confession other than "okay"? You' seem to be hoping for a romcom happy ending but this isn't the way to go about it.

After 21 days there is no pattern or consistency so please don't mess this up with tat-for-tat games. It's not "putting your foot down", it's just anxiety causing you to wobble in the beginning. Try to be as natural and relaxed as possible without trying to rock the boat for reactions. That type of thing backfires.

Please consult an attorney for information, advice and support regarding your options in this case. Especially if you're considering this do-it-yourself style separation with abandoning the marital home and other poor decisions that could backfire.

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It's only 21 days. Take a deep breath. I don't think she's rebounding or on vacation with someone else. It seems like you don't know her too well after just 21 days. Give each other space and allow each other to at least get to know each other better. Slow down. Her apprehension is from ex and custody nightmare stories so please manage that. Focus on your budding relationship and organize your custody arrangements without rancor.

Sorry this is happening. Living together and especially trying to blend families and being burdened with financial obligations is quite stressful. 6 months seems like an adjustment period especially since you tried to force fit this because . "Having a family and a house was all i ever dreamed of". It's regrettable that you bought a house together knowing he never wants to marry and knowing he's not affectionate. You both seem caught up in domestic drugery and a relationship of economic an domestic convenience. Please try to restore some romance. Step out of the homeowner routine and plan some fun and date nights and get babysitters and some alone adult time. Maybe it's too soon and too expensive and disruptive to just throw in the towel, so try some other things first. Please stop begging for affection. .

It seems to be going well. It's only been 21 days and there's too much too soon. Especially since you're both single parents. Try to not complain so much about your child's mother. Its a turn off and makes this new woman understandably apprehensive. Although it's going well please try to slow down and not suffocate.

Please try seeing a physician for an evaluation of your physical and mental health and get some tests done. Ask for a referral to a licensed qualified therapist for ongoing support. Therapy could help you with chronic negativity and cognitive distortions. For example that the world is against you. The problem isn't dating apps. They're no different than Netflix. You pay to use it whether you like what you see or not. It's this skewed self-pity that stands in your own way and all the commiserating simply increases this twisted bias. It's not that the world hates you, it's that you hate the world.

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In your 24 months of "experience" on dating apps, it's odd that you believe they're nonprofit organizations to find you dates. The phone you're typing on and all the apps in it are made by for-profit companies. So the whole dating apps are just be to make money is a ridiculous copout. It seems you lack experience and true confidence and are matching steadily toward inceldom with your skewed attitude towards dating and women.