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Sorry this happened. Was this a general meetup situation or for singles? It seems he's there to make friends. Go and enjoy your meetups but it would be best to avoid someone who has a GF if you're interested in dating. Try to mingle with the single people. That he's handsome doesn't mean he's free to go after.

Sorry this is happening. It seems like he was cheating all along. It's probably better to distance yourself from someone who lies, cheats, and seems opportunistic and insincere. Please don't chase or "check up" on him.

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Sorry this is happening. LDRs are very lonely frustrating and difficult. It does seem like you've grown apart a lot and the honeymoon phase is over because of this fork in the road. It's good he's being honest and not leading you on. Please reconsider hanging on. Perhaps you would enjoy your local life more if you set each other free.

Sorry this happened. Trust your instincts. You made the right decision to end things. You're not a homewrecker, he is. He abandoned them. The whole situation is stressful and be glad you're free of their mess.

Sorry this is happening. How did you meet? How did this this become a distance situation? Unfortunately he seems to not respect your feelings or boundaries and it's turning you off. You've already explained your feelings and boundaries but he "forgets"?. So it's unclear how reminding yet again would help. Please stop hanging out with him and accepting anything if he wants you to repay him with sex, especially since he's turning you off. You seem to want different things and don't seem compatible.

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You seem to have a significant lack of social skills and awareness if all you do is argue and get rude with posters wasting their time on your topic when you asked for input on your situation. If you are this defensive and rude at work, perhaps rethink your approach and attitude.

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It seems like you want him to be following you because you're still hoping for something. Especially since you keep repeating this as your mantra as if you are just frustrated that he doesn't want what you want except maybe easy hookups as a backup.

That's not a good reason to be his punching bag . Why would you continue to live there, no less plan to buy a place? Do your coworkers know your BF beats you up or do you lie about bruises and black eyes? You're in a classic domestic violence situation and there's help for you.

Please focus on realistic plans to meet and hopefully see each other enough to build a relationship. Anecdotal stories about success stories are fun, but without realistic plans and expectations they won't happen. Dating and relationships are not therapy. It's not to help your porn and masturbation addiction. Please focus on your own improvement and see if you are even attracted and compatible before you put the horse before the cart. Try to stay grounded.

Do you still live in his parents house? Unfortunately you're in an abusive relationship. Please contact domestic violence agencies for information advice support and help getting out of this. They can help you find safe accommodations. Do you work? Have a car? Do you have trusted friends and family to stay with? Please be frank about the abuse. If you need to call the police or go to an ER for medical treatment, then do so. It's unclear why you are staying with him and his family.