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No need to bring it up in advance. Relax and let things evolve naturally. Please Don't compare yourself to pornstars. There's a wide range of sizes.

Sorry this is happening. This is where it gets murky as far as the complicated nature of your relationship. Why is it long distance? And what was your understanding of the relationship and his visit to before this incident? You don't have to wait 4 months to end things but it does seem like you have unresolved issues with previous incidents and therapy would help you. But basically you don't trust him anymore almost making him out as an assailant, so why do you want to keep seeing him?

Since they've already met there is no reason for your ex to contact your fiancee personally. It seems she's just nosy or interfering. It's definitely not necessary to get lawyers involved, that's absurd. It's just a matter of maintaining boundaries and protecting your fiancees privacy and personal information.

It's definitely time to lose his number and delete and block him. Please don't call his GFs, what's the point?

Unfortunately it seems like he's stringing you along and cheating. This man is not going to solve your problems with anxiety and feeling unloved. Please see a physician for an evaluation of your physical and mental health. Discuss the insomnia and anxiety. Ask for a referral to a licensed qualified therapist for ongoing support. Is this the same man?

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Sorry this is happening. You seem to have good insight that things won't work without attraction and it's not fair to either of you. Just because dating is tough with some obstacles for you, if you're just coasting along because she's "nice", you're both going to get hurt when she catches on. . and she will. Consider setting each other free to find a better match.

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Please don't worry about it. There are tests that employers take. It's just inferred from a reddit post. It's not your job to save the world from her. It's your job to avoid her in any way and save yourself the grief of thinking about her.

Please delete and block her on all platforms and please stop stalking her activities. It's not your problem or your business. Is this the same woman?.

Try dating apps.

That's not necessary. All you need is patience and self control.

You can coparent and date and meet each other's new partners especially when there's children. However there's no reason your ex needs a private powwow with your GF. Please don't give your GFs contact info to your ex.

If she's worried about having sex in her house and her mother catching her and getting upset, it's understandable. You'll just have to be patient and find better opportunities for privacy and intimacy. You need to respect her and her parents and household as well as her health and preferences. She doesn't owe you sex especially in her parents house and when she's menstruating. Be more respectful and mature about it. Is this the same woman?

It's understandable that it hurts, but trust your instincts, you don't need a rollercoaster or someone who's checking out of the relationship. Part of it may be being homesick and that's understandable too. Please try to reconnect with friends and family back home a bit more. Stay up on social media and post pics and comments about your life abroad so people can relate and reply. It's also good you're making friends and acquaintances locally.