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  1. So, I've been with my GF for a bit less than 3 years now. I love her dearly and everything was perfect up untill the end of last year. Suddenly, she started going for drinks after work and would be comming home later and later. As it went on, she'd come home at between 3 and 7 AM even though we were on a lockdown and no place worked after 12. I was never invited to those outings. What bothered me was the she'd lie to me about when she came home. I was usually asleep and wouldnt look at the clock, but one day I got up to go to the bathroom at 6AM as she was just returning home and it made me look through security footage and finding out that she lied about the times before. After awhile I couldnt take it any more (I was in a relationship before where I was cheated this way) and decided to tell my gf that things cant go that way any more. She promised change and met me with her friends. And things did change for some time. Then she decided she's going on a trip with her work friends. I just couldnt let myself relax over that but decided that its my problem and I didnt want to make a fuss over it (because I should trust her, we're in relationship after all). Then saturday night she calls me at 12 and says her company is going to a club but she'll stay and sleep. I was out and as I came home I saw a story her friend posted from the club and my gf was there. It made me feel bad again as she lied to me once more (I dont mind her going to the club). I confronted her in the morning and we had a big fight where she kept saying how I dont trust her and am insecure. Am I the problem here? Can I fix it somehow? I dont want to live forever this way...
  2. I'd like to post a few things here. 1) The girl I was hung up on most of my HS and we had a few short relationships. Well, we split for about 3 years (those 3 years I was with my ex that I originally came here for). Shortly after I broke up with my ex, this girl gets in touch with me and we had a short fling for a few months, but I decided she's not for me and so we split again. 2) My friend broke up with her boyfriend after about a year of dating, then after about 6 months they got back together and dated for another year and then split for good as it seems now. 3) my friend just got back with his ex that he dated about 2 years ago, I dont believe he was in much contact with her. 4)My "the ex" (that I came here for) contacted me long after our original breakup, I dont know what she wanted but I just deleted her message (I was well over her by then). Some of my friends also went back to their exes, but it never quite worked out. Now one thing that probably stands out from all of this. I came here about 3 years ago after a girl I really loved (and were together for a long time and planned our kids, blah blah). It took me about a year to be completely over her. Now there are other girls that are troubling my emotions. What I'm trying to say, to all of you that are hurting now, pain is just temporary, at some point it will get better and you will get over your ex (I'd say forget, but you never actually forget, they just remain in your mind like a good childhood friend that you went out of touch with). Just keep on strong, all it takes is time and avoiding of rubbing the wound. Sometimes it seems like there is no end to a pain, but that's not true, that's just your addiction troubling you.
  3. I dont really know which day it is,last we "spoke" was in october. I had a dream about her this night, I was so happy in this dream. And I woke up depressed once again. It's taking too long -.- .
  4. I've got one, it's been going from around new years. She broke up with a guy in spring last year. The way she talked about him before breakup was like she hated him from the depths of her soul (no cheating,but he didnt behave just the way she liked it and she lost feelings). On new years eve she says she has a bf,but was secretive about him so I didnt push really. Today I was told by our mutual friend that she's back with this guy that she dumped in spring. I dont really know the middle part,but I know for a fact that there was substantial amount of time that they didnt talk to each other (she blocked him on fb).
  5. One of those stories that kill your wishes about getting back with your ex. We need more like this!
  6. Day 152, Idk why I feel sad today again. I mean it's bearable but it's not nice. It's been so long...
  7. Today,new storry. My female friend was asking me a lot about my best friend which is her ex for the past month. Today she asked him out,but he declined. They dated for a year about 3 years ago and she left him. They did have sporadical contact but nothing major. He still talks of her sometimes when he drinks too much ,and he decided to say no. Kudos to him!
  8. In a year of nic never happened to me and there was period of me being sh*tfaced for a week straight 3 months after BU. Just keep strong and delete her number!
  9. Well,today I deleted all of our photos that I saved into a special folder. It's hard to grasp that it's been nearly a year... I do feel a lot better. My heart hasnt skipped a beat when I stumbled upon this folder, which gave me good enough indication to delete everything. It all seemed so hard a year ago, who would have tought that time flies so quickly?
  10. Umm,people, this is thread where you're supposed to write some successfull getting back together stories. Not your break up stories
  11. It hurts the most for first month,it gets easier after.
  12. Keep it strong. It's only going to last for a month. Then it'll be easier.
  13. Yes it is, especially if you dreamed about her. Anyway,it was over the next day so it's good
  14. It's been 2 months, and I've been great up till now. But today I felt sad in morning, but because I realized I dont remember her really. I barely remember her looks,and cant remember her "personality", it's like my brain blocked her. The only thing I remember are her lips .
  15. I've been feeling good for quite some time now
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