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  1. Frangipani
    bump tis good
  2. Frangipani
    Well I dont really know what day I'm on now as I ran into my ex at the beach on Monday after over 3 weeks of NC. Guess I was back to one again. I'd never called or texted him during this time. Nor he me.
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    Well Im angry now, which is good. healing is happening. No more making excuses for him etc. Just pissed now.
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    Day 22 So mad right now I could scream.
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    Day 22 Pissed off completley. Thats all I can say
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    Day 21 Feeling a bit better. Thinking about him less. Kinda feeling more angry at him doign what he did to me now. Bit of a coward. Very pissed that he went camping with one of my best male friends this weekend though.
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    Day 17 Didn't go to work again. Cried on and off all day. Fount out my ex is going camping with one of my best male friends. I'm angry that he would want even ask him to go, knowing how much he has hurt me. I can't get away from his precense. One of his friends lives next door to me, he does a sport wth MY friends.
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    Well tonight I went out with a mutual friend. Shouldn't have mentioned my ex. He told me that the ex had almost gone home with some woman on the weekend. I when I asked him why he thinks my ex hasn't contacted me at all during these 3 weeks he said, "well if I was to put money on it I'd say it's because he doesn't give a crap.' I juts don't know what to think. I'm hurting so much. :sad:
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    I hate this. I miss him. I won't contact him but I wish he would me. I went to the movies by myself tonight and my local cinema and I saw his friends work truck there, which meant he was probably there too. His friend lives accross the street from me too...seems like I can't get away from it. So hard
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    Day 14 2 weeks since I told him I couldn't see him for a while. It's been so damn hard. I'm trying to keep busy - gym, friends, reading books, talking here. It hurts. I don't have a problem trying to contact him myself, but I am really struggling with the fact that he hasn't tried to contact me to even say 'hi' and that he hasn't asked after me to mutual friends since we split a month ago. Weird, most people struggle with breaking contact from their end, I do well with that. I struggle with him not contacting me - especially after I said that phone or text is fine, just cant SEE him for now. I guess it comes down to either of these: 1. He doesn't give a crap and never thinks of me 2. He's respecting me by giving me space Just finding it hard
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    Last one: I'm still trying to figure it out. He basically just 'went off' me. In the end he told me he was 'confused about his feelings' then it became 'I don't have the same feelings for you that I did.' Whatever....
  12. Frangipani
    I read lots of self help books way before I met my ex, I thought I was ok. - no sex when there used to be A LOT, like 5 times a week - stops doing something he REALLY loved to do sexually (eg going down on me) and doesn't do it again at all. - says he's to tired for sex ehen you know hes a night owl - doesn't look at you naked anymore - doesn't call you the names he used to on a daily basis ('beautiful' was mine) - would rather sit in the bath with a book for 3 hours at night (I kid you not) than have sex with you - would rather sit and play solitaire onhis lapto for hours than have sex with you - you come home from a trip away for 7 days and all he wants to do when he gets home is have a bath and read - doesn't respond to flirty sexy texts - doesn't reply at not many texts when you are out of town - spends more nights out with boys - never compliments you about anything - you end up having to initiate holding his hand whereas he used to be all over you in public!!! and the final clincher for me.... - goes out with the boys on a Friday night and doesnt get home til 10am on Saturday morning. Doesn't even bother to call when i have been up worried half the night!!!
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    Day 9 It's hard. The urge to call or text is waning, but it hurts that he hasn't contacted me - when I said phoning or texting was ok. I juts didnt want to 'see' him for a while. Guess he just doesn't care. I replace negative thoughts of what he could be doing with other women (he's a real player when he's single) with he and I in happy times - possibly future times - whether that happens or not it's certainly helping me with healing.
  14. Frangipani
    I texted 'Hey. How ru?' tonight. He replied. I feel so lame. He invited me to come see his new place on Wednesday. I really don't know what to do
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    Last night I felt strong, but now that I've seen him again it hurts a bit. I wish he hadn't come over He seems to think he can just drop in whenever he likes. Dave - how do you tell someone it's not ok to just come by whenever? I'm not one of these people who needs to say, 'I don't want you you contact me, I need time alone!' I prefer the just me not contacting him scenario. It seems like he misses me but hes out everyday doing something with his friends. I dunno. I don't even know where to begin with his question about coming to see his new place.I dont juts want to be his friend right now.
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