Quidam

Well well its been a year!

Day #1 again ... See my threads for details Here we go again

My ex just called me saying we should have dinner or coffee to talk over the fact that after 8 months she cant move on and get over me... Cliff: She dropped me when we had a 14 month child... I had to take 6 months paternity relief since she ed up with her taxes and has to pay back a crazy amount. She left me because I froze when in the same week I got the news I was to become a father and that my girlfriend had 6 figures of debts in taxes to repay. She slept with someone else a month after she left me... A one time thing she felt horrible about (thats what she says) The breakup was terrible, she went nuts crashed the car 2 times, slightly assaulted me cause she thought I was recording her with my cell. We went into mediation with lawyers I got destroyed and robbed since their is a flaw in the law where I live. She could take everything we had and I couldn't say anything. Basically she feels the breakup was the best thing she did because since then I got a therapist, went back to my formal athlete shape I had when we met and finally left the job I hated for so long. Also I had an issue where i was online gaming in order to cope with the whole $ situation it became an issue. She now wants to give it a shot (she also got herself a therapist and is finally living a lifestyle where she fixed the affective dependency she had that was cursing our relationship) Just bought a new place I'm moving in 3 weeks. I still love her I hate seeing my baby girl only half the time I feel betrayed and it bugs me when she says the breakup was a goos thing and that she did not betray me Any inputs guys?

After 5 months of giving me hell making my life a nightmare you text me that you miss me and that you are finding the whole thing really difficult. Call back the guy you slept with a month after you dumped me Go try and wear the lingerie you accepted has a gift from I don't know who that you left in plain sight for me to find Do anything you effing want but please lose my number... You left me at the worst time... With a 14 month girl that I now have to raise on my own half of the time in order for you to have the best of both world

Day 1 .... We still have to sell the car ... Still have to pass to the notary for the condo sale, and then I will truly start a no contact. Its been 4 months, she gave up on us and now I'm stuck with a 15 months old child, my daughter is my everything but when we decided to have her I made it clear we needed to do every thing to make it work. How silly was I to trust her with money and her capacity to be normal and have a family. The dates that will hurt the most: 19 of march... My 30th birthday 5 of april.... The end (hopefully and sadly) of it all. My mind is feeling so much better but my skin calls for her on a daily basis and I really strongly believe I can't trust anyone for the rest of my life. I was an collecting girls like prizes and then met that girl that seemed so perfect. 5 years later I'm back to square one 5th of april can't come fast enough.

No and hopefully no

Im free of you Finally

You wanted a kid so much ... And then you fell pregnant... And then you put us into hundred of thousands of debt only to break up when our little girl turned 1 year old. I didn't sign up to become a single dad and yet Catherine is my everything and you are gone ... Stealing half of her life from me and sleeping with someone else already. I wan't to die ... And yet I have to live and achieve greatness to be the dad she deserves