My ex just called me saying we should have dinner or coffee to talk over the fact that after 8 months she cant move on and get over me...
Cliff:
She dropped me when we had a 14 month child... I had to take 6 months paternity relief since she ed up with her taxes and has to pay back a crazy amount. She left me because I froze when in the same week I got the news I was to become a father and that my girlfriend had 6 figures of debts in taxes to repay.
She slept with someone else a month after she left me... A one time thing she felt horrible about (thats what she says)
The breakup was terrible, she went nuts crashed the car 2 times, slightly assaulted me cause she thought I was recording her with my cell.
We went into mediation with lawyers I got destroyed and robbed since their is a flaw in the law where I live. She could take everything we had and I couldn't say anything.
Basically she feels the breakup was the best thing she did because since then I got a therapist, went back to my formal athlete shape I had when we met and finally left the job I hated for so long. Also I had an issue where i was online gaming in order to cope with the whole $ situation it became an issue.
She now wants to give it a shot (she also got herself a therapist and is finally living a lifestyle where she fixed the affective dependency she had that was cursing our relationship)
Just bought a new place I'm moving in 3 weeks.
I still love her
I hate seeing my baby girl only half the time
I feel betrayed and it bugs me when she says the breakup was a goos thing and that she did not betray me
Any inputs guys?