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  1. Thx for the replies, if I hear from her again I will try to get to the point and ask her out.
  2. Update: she stopped replying on my latest 2 “messages” while she always did in the last weeks. Haven’t heard from here since thursday. Well I guess I’ve got my answer. Thanks for the advice, hopefully one day I’ll find someone who likes me back 🙂
  3. Alright, maybe I should wait a bit more
  4. I will ask her thisb Indeed, but she didn’t say it to me. And we only knew each other like 2 hours at that point. The fact that she shows interest in me, initiates contact. She also talks sometimes in future tense like “you havent seen that part of me yet ;)”. I’ll ask her out this weekend. I just hope I don’t blow my shot by asking her out too soon
  5. Hello everyone, it’s been a while since I’ve met someone that I actually like, but one month ago it happened again :). I was on a party and I met a girl who is the sister of the girlfriend of one of my best friends. We talked a lot at the party (1-2 hours) and she laughed a lot. So everything was going fine. At one point one of her friends came to talk with her and mentioned did she seemed to have a very good time talking to me. All positive signals, but I heard her (the girl I want to date) saying that “she isn’t ready for a new relationship”. Apparantly she just (it ended end June) came out of a toxic relationship where she was cheated on multiple times. The day after the party I texted her and she replied enthusiastic but took some time to reply. In the next 2 weeks we texted a bit, but the initiative only came from my side. 2 weeks ago the texting increased a lot, while she was out with a mutual (girl) friend, she text a lot and told me she was at a bar. I went to say hi, offered her a drink and we talked for about 30 minutes before she had to go. The day after she initiated the conversation per text and we texted a lot. Last week the conversation per text ended at some point. I wanted to know if she would initiate contact, so I didn’t text her for 2 days. Fastforward to last sundayevening where she sent me a text and asked how my weekend went etc. She then continued to text a lot and seemed interested in me. Now the most important question, should I ask her out? It’s clear that she is interested in me, but because she told her girlfriend she wasn’t ready for a new relationship I don’t want to rush things and blow my chances for a date. Sorry for the long post, but what do you guys think? Should I wait and try and meet her with mutual friends around or ask her on a date?
  6. Hi everyone, been on this forum from the beginning of 2015. Had an on-off relationship with whom I considered to be the love of my life (F26) at that time. We had a relationship from 2015-2019. After the relationship ended, I (31M atm) was devastated. I went on a date with a few other girls, 3 or 4 I guess, but wasn't ready (at the time) for something new. I compared each of them to my ex-GF and it sucks to realize this now. Those girls were definitely girlfriend-material, but have a steady partner at the moment. I'm afraid I won't have a new chance with someone good since most of the girls of my age or younger seem to be taken already. If I could go back 3 years in time, I would tell myself that I was stupid to compare them to my ex (who actually dumped me 3 times, love of my life yeah right). So long story short, I am definitely ready for something new right now, but it appears that all the good girls are already taken. The last few days I have this feeling of anxiety that I will end up alone. It's extra hard if I compare myself to my friends, who are already have children and getting married. I also want to move forward in life. Sorry for the post of self-pity, I just need to vent my feelings :).
  7. Hi everyone, a few months ago I (M-31) met a girl (26-F) in a club. We started texting afterwards and went out in the beginning of december. We started to hang out casual once or twice a week and she always slept over (and had sex). She is still a student and lives with her mom. I'm renting a place and working for 9 years. So things are getting a bit more serious lately, but she keeps on telling that she has commitment issues and doesn't really knows what she wants in live. I for instance really want to have children, she can't picture herself ever having children (at this moment in her life, that could always change in the future). So right now I don't know what to do, I already have feelings for her. But if she doesn't know what she wants and doesn't want children, I don't want do "waste" my time waiting on her for her mind to change. I think it will also hold me back to fully commit in a relationship with her.. On the other hand, I get along with her very well and don't want to hurt her feelings. We already talked about this and she understands how I'm feeling. But we haven't made a conclusion whether to keep on dating or ending it right now. Right now it's a bit of a struggle between the head of the heart. Thanks in advance for the advice.
  8. DAY 86 Feeling much better then 3 months ago. Time does heal although in the beginning you can't imagine living without them. Apparently she is telling all our mutual friends that we decided to breakup together, while in fact she broke up with me. Another proof that she is still acting childish -_-
  9. Just never ever break no contact. Unless they literally say they want to reconcile
  10. It's just strange. We talked to each other every day for the last 4 years and now it's like I mean nothing for her. I try not to think of that, but it really hurts.
  11. Day 58, it is getting better. A part of me still wants to reconcile, but another part tells me that she has hurt me to many times.
  12. Day 30 - I started NC immediately after the breakup. Having a rough week, I finally realize that it's over and it's very hard to accept
  13. Day 44: BU almost 3 months ago, went immediately NC. NC lasted for 52 days, until I saw her at a party and she talked to me. I shouldn't have done that, because I had a major setback and needed to start all over again.. Day 44 now since I talked to her, things are going much much better then at the beginning. One tip for everybody remove them on all social media + try to avoid contact and being in the same room with them[/b], until you are absolutely sure you are over them..
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