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  1. I will try my best not to contact her.😔
  2. Thank you. Your point of view is comprehensive and very helpful. I guess I should start forgetting about her and not to guess what caused her blocking my number and ignoring me on the IM app.
  3. Thank you. I still have a little hope for getting back with her since she did not block all the means of communication with me and keeping me on the hook. Just don’t understand why the hell she just doesn’t break up with me right away… But you’re right. It was a one sided relationship. She was being denial when talking about our future. She was kinda selfish too, not cared about my feeling when she said about not wanting to have kid/marriage with me.
  4. Since a long time coming back to enotalone, looking for breakup advice again. Please help, I dunno what can I do next.😔My “gf” has been ignoring me since 14th Feb. I am 29 yo and my gf is 28. We met at the school that we previously work together. We dated for almost 3 years. At first, I felt that her personality and behavior were not compatible with mine, because she not really liked going out for a date, except dinning sometimes, but slowly I began to accept her and love her more and more. Although I like outdoor activities, she just liked staying at home watching movies and resting on the bed. In our relationship, I felt frustrated and sad sometimes because she said she wouldn’t get married with me nor having children in the future. She never brought me to meet her family or friends, but she came to my home and stay overnight every week so she already met my parents for so many times. I remember few times that she said her parents have higher standards and they will not accept me, that really hurts me. 1 yr ago, she found out I flirt with other girls online and wanted to break up with me. I apologized and begged her to stay with me and our relationship kept going on. We also had sexual collaboration issue which I wanted to have sex more often while she just wanted once a week due to tiredness and pain. But before she ignoring me, we tried out lubricant during sex and she said the pain was not that bad anymore and willing to have more. I went to jail for 5 months because I did something bad and before that, she said she didn’t know whether she will wait or not, and would make decision after my release. But starting from late December, she stopped picking up my calls and seeing me. I missed her soooo bad and really wanted to find out what happened and her decision. I just got released from jail this week. The first thing I did was contact her immediately, but I found out she block my number on the phone call, but NOT blocking me on the IM app. So I sent multiple messages to express my understanding and if she could give me another chance to get back together. She just replied she is deciding whether break up with me or not, but I haven’t received any answer since. I tried to call her today and found out she unblocked my number but didn’t picking up the phone. Few hours later, she blocked my phone call again… I’m really emotionally overwhelmed, because I feel like I cannot lose her and I really love her, wanting to have a future with her. What can I do now? She blocked my phone call and not responding to my message, I’m sure she didn’t block me on the IM app.
  5. Some of them were not relationships I think?. 8 out of 10 are met online. Including those broke up very quickly because we just met 1-2 times:/
  6. I cannot tell her straight that I cannot sleep and missing my exes.🤣I don’t want to bother her sleep anyway. Pretty sure she doesn’t have sleep issues. Sometimes I want to ask them how are their lives going and what’s up but I know they will not reply or just say none of my business🤣
  7. Hi there, We are all strangers. But all come here for one reason, to seek advice about our lives. The following passage may be long but please read it if you have time and patience about a stranger’s life. Sorry if there is any typo because actually I’m from Hong Kong. Now I am 27. I have a gf 25, we met at work in Feb 2021 and started to date in Apr. I love her and wanted to have a family with her but still out of a sudden, it’s 05:30am and i need to get up at 7 to work but I can’t sleep. I rarely have insomnia but when I do, I sometimes think about my past, especially the relationships I had before. I didn’t have much relationship, I think within 10 including with the girls I met online (actually I only had 1 relationship that was meeting in real person before back when I was 17, and this is my 2nd time). Sometimes, I don’t know why, is it my self-initiated sensation? There are some girls I can never forget when I can’t sleep or feel lonely. Even though we cut all contacts since our relationships ended. I know the girls who we met online can be playful and not serious but I sometimes think about the good times with them and I can’t hardly keeping myself stalking their Instagram profiles when I am sad and lonely. However, I won’t message them because I think that will be awkward and they won’t rely anymore. I am pretty sure they have boyfriends already and who knows maybe even have children but I don’t know why I cannot forget them just like they did to me like it was never happen before. Sometimes, I also think about the girls that I regretted not chasing them because I met them in real life and they are my dream girls. But I know these won’t matter anymore. In the end of the day, we won’t meet or contact with each other what so ever. I love my current girlfriend but not as much as I did in my previous relationships. She is a good match for me (ofcause not trying to compare her to my previous ones physically). I feel she loves me as well and we may get married few years from now. Anyway, thank you eNotAlone and all of your guys’ support to an Asian guy. LOL. I think only a few ppl of mine know this kind of awesome relationship counseling website. The first time I came here, I was 21 and now I am 27. Thank you guys for all the advices and support! It really meant a tons to me and my personally growth! Bye for now, it is 6am. Need to get up early for work tomorrow.
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