Heartbrok3n445

My ex and I broke up a year into our relationship for two months. I begged, tried to be friends, cried, etc for the first month than finally went NC for another month when he called begging me for another chance. Things changed and we moved in together six months later. He dumped me again two and a half years later. Treated me like absolute crap during the break up. This time I went NC about two weeks into it. Have been NC since. We've been broken up for 7 weeks. I don't think history will repeat itself - I use to but I don't now. He's moved on, loves his group of friends, his life, etc. Tbh I think if he left it another month or so before coming back the first time I wouldn't have taken him back. I'd never go back now. But reconcilliation can happen sometimes. And I hope for those it does happen to that it works out for you!

I miss you. Please realise what you've lost and come back to me. I know things can be different. I want things to go back to when we said we'd be together forever. I'm really scared that you will never miss me or want me back and that me doing NC will just help you move on.

Omg I feel exactly the same! I wish I could see what everyone sees and look back and think 'omg why did I waste so much time, thank god we broke up!' I guess it just takes time. It's definitely not easy.

Weirdcat - I feel exactly the same! I think we hurt so much we just get desperate for things to just go back to how they were. Maybe you could try just not contacting him? Trust me I know its hard to go NC (I'm struggling atm) but I'm told it gets easier and it helps us heal