onmyownagain

When I say compromise, I mean doing things she wanted rather than what I wanted. Sharing some of her friends even when I didn't like them. Putting up with the rubbish soaps every night because that is what she liked. Even had the chance to move to the US twice over the years but she wouldn't move away from her family, even for a year. Excusing little white lies even though I can't stand lies. Loads of other things like that, all adds up over the years.

Hi Addicus, It think it is too late to try now, we aren't even talking now and really do think this is for the best. Not prepared to put my daughter through it all again.

Thanks John, As far as I am concerned it is over for good. I am not using the rose tinted glasses this time, looking at how it really was. Okay, we did have nice times over the years but really think I could be happier with someone else. I had to compromise myself so much over the years and will never do that again.

We split again on the earlier this month, wish I had never gone back. Don't think it is ever worth it.

Well done Danny, glad things are working out for you.

I always think, making love in the dark allows your other half to think of someone else instead of you, how inscure am I.

As a guy, I like to look at images of women like most men but my wife doesn't have a problem with this. We do sometimes watch porn together but I think I would have a problem with her looking at it alone with her vibrator, even though I myself do this on occasion. I wouldn't stop her because that would be controlling and she is happy for me to do it when I am alone. Looking at this sort of thing may not be wrong but if it is an issue in your relationship then it certainly needs to be addressed. Forget what others say, if you don't like it you have the right to react as you want.

Sorry if I offended you, that was not my intention. You are right, I did misinterpret what you meant.

But you let your job come before your love life. So you have a good career and loads of money, but no family to enjoy it. My wife and I split for 3 months last year and this has taught me there is nothing more important than your family. I have a very good job but if it stood in the way of my family I would walk away from it today.

Hi, I have a career and a family, you have to find a balance, there is more to life than just working.

I can't remember how long it look my wife and I to fall in love but had a good idea after a few months of dating. I think the most important advice for a long marriage is not to take the other for granted and don't think that because you have tied the knot, they are there forever. Work at it everyday.

I think it depends what you talk about. I am happily married but flirt like mad with the woman at work and text people flirty things. Do this enough times and they start to believe you!! Had to appologise a couple of times recently for giving the wrong impression, one girl got very upset when I told her I wasn't interested. Learnt my lesson now

If you spend more than $1000 make sure she knows it is on loan until the day you die. If you divorce then it is yours again.

Wow, that sounds nice. I want to sleep with you now and I am a man!! Don't tell the wife

I think some women like to feel filled, but it is only a feeling, it shouldn't really stop her getting pleasure, but I think for them width comes into it more anyway. I am average size and haven't had any complaints, if you want to go in deep, change your positions.