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  1. Don't react/respond to breadcrumb. Stay strong.
  2. nc since aug 18,2015- It's been so long.... will I ever forget him completely? I am really feeling so low from past so many days.
  3. I am missing him terrilbly. I need some advise/encouragement.
  4. Lucky all of you! You don't have to see them everyday. Out of sight, out of mind. Mine tries to keep coming in front of me for one or the other reason. Its hard to just ignore his presence when he intentionally keeps striking. Don't understand what does he want now?
  5. Its her wedlock with the person she chose to be with for the rest of her life, so its a fun for her. You sitting and watching her, won't be a fun for sure. But now that you shared the reason behing sending you the invite, would you be still attending the wedding?
  6. Had I been at your place, I would have never even acknowledged the wedding invite, forget about attending! Don't go...it will refreash all the past memories. Fun for her and pain for you.
  7. NC Day 140- I am doing quite ok as it's been months of NC. The desire to reach out to him or he contacting me is already dead. I don't think I would ever initiate contact with him. There was time I used to wait for his morning messages, get upset & restless if he didn't text. But thanks to the will power that I showed during this entire NC phase that I no more feel miserable without him. It takes time & test your real streangths but I assure you - it does heal. Yes I do have feelings for him and that will take some time to fade away. Waiting for the day when I get to see him & feels absolutely nothing(like my previous Xs). Yeah update on him..He again called up both on Saturday & suday last weekend, making me wonder all time "what the hell you want now?". His calls remained unanswered. Rather its upsetting-you never bothered and always made me feel worthless when I was there and now what is the point of reaching out when months back I told you to stop msging & calling me. I don't get that. I feel that He sees me doing good without him & now that is something not going well with him. And wants to hurt me again as he did in the past. No way I am gonna give you that chance. Keep calling & messaging..I WILL NEVER RESPOND. I AM DONE WITH YOU!!
  8. NC Day 131- Was ok yesterday. I had learnt to keep my expectations to low or nil when it comes to him. Yesterday even the thought that he would contact, didn't strike my mind. That's the sign that I am doing good in the healing phase. And then in the evening he called up!! He is not my contact list but I could recognise his number. Haven't spoken to him in months since NC still he keeps calling & texting. Don't know why. In the past talking to him had always left me in tears. So this time also his call was unanswered. I am tired of hurting myself when we used to speak. So for me it's all over. Feels like I should now block him. I was fine throughout the day but after his call was a bit disturbed & sad. As usual, had to put on some loud-loud music to lift the souls & it did the trick. BTW, Happy V-Day to all.
  9. True.Whenever you recall such incidents where you were ignored, they tend to make you stronger. Happened in my case.
  10. Hi all! I am not new to this thread. I had been following up but posting for the first time. 126 days... I was getting better with the passage of time but today missing him badly. Got to know from somebody that he is getting married this month.
  11. Hi all, I would be needing your insight on my situation. After more than a year of being together as aquintances when I saw it going nowhere I initiated NC with this guy. I like him a lot & I have expressed that indirectly. In the past, many a times he had dropped hints that he likes me but nothing for sureshot could be made out of those gestures. This had build a kind of frustration in me & I decided to call it quits & in mid August I initiated NC with him. He used to message me on & off, sometime calls as well. His on & off messgaes were making me condition miserable plus wasn't leading us to anywhere, so one fine morning after his Morning wishes message, I gave him a lame excuse and I told him not to message me ever. He agreed to that. That weekend (out of desparation i believe) he called. I didn't pick up his call thinking it will give me pain nothing else & again will raise my hopes for nothing. (Roller coaster for me for last one year)Tell you I was really at peace by not responding. This was the first time ever in last year. Following weekends he kept calling me and I never responded. He sent me wtsapp msgs that I look beautiful in my DP and I never responded. It was almost one and half month of no contact for us. We saw each other everyday. I could see a question in his eyes as to why I suddenly ended everything. After that I went on trip to another country and while returning bought a present for him. I wasn't sure if at all I will be able to give to him or not. After a lot of thinking, I decided to give what has been bought specially for him. Without saying a word I handed over the gift to him & he also accepted. He could make out I was not in the mood to talk so very wisely he also kept mum. But later that weekend he called me again & I didn't respond. I believe this gifting gesture made him think something positive that he again started messaging me requesting me to take his call. And finally I spoke to him & kept my conversation minimal. I knew he wanted to talk to me more and more but I was not wanting that, something not coming from heart. spoke to him for 3 mins & said goodbye. He had no choice rather than saying bye forcefully. After the day we spoke, he again started messaging me. I observed 2-3 times & reminded him that I had requested him not to message me. He stopped. Its been 2-3 days now. If I carefully observe him, I can see a lot of desparation in him to come back to things as they were in the past. What do you think of my situation as a whole? You think he misses me & has realized something. Or he just wants the things to be as per comfort on & off. Does he have feelings for me? Have I done a mistake with this gifting thing.
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