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Coldarmy13

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  1. Hey there friend! Yeah was bored yesterday and figured I’d browse here.
  2. I find the longer you message back and forth, the less likely a meet up will occur. If we match during the week, I try and set up a date the upcoming weekend. Doesn’t always result in one but at least I can rule that person out in the event they’re waiting for something “better” or just looking for attention.
  3. Even then, great, but don’t necessarily look as it as a chance to be with her. I wouldn’t put her in a pedestal right away. Look at it as an opportunity to meet someone new and see if she’s someone YOU would be interested in. Also, consider if you’re comfortable with someone who’s doted over so often each time she works. If jealousy has been any issue for you.
  4. I’ve never bothered trying to flirt with a bartender. I read their kindness and flirting as just that, her job. That hundreds of guys probably hit on her every week, I just don’t want to be another one. Cant hurt to ask though. You’ll know for sure then.
  5. If you feel that way, tell his as quickly and honestly as possible. No reason to bring up your ex or why, just the truth.. that it isn’t working for you anymore.
  6. As a man, I supremely appreciate a woman not afraid to shoot her shot. We have to do it all the time to find out if anyone is interested in us. If I feel That my interest is one’s sided or playing the “chase me” game, I lose interest quickly.
  7. I’d also be curious about what the differences are. If your interest is high now, I don’t see why more dates would be out of the question. If you’re comfortable and get along great in person, and you enjoy her communication style during the in between then it sounds like a promising start. I gave up on finding someone that’s exactly my mirror image or having all the same things in common ages ago. It’s more about the compatibility and comfort to where I don’t have to second guess anything. I too, wonder if you’re looking for reason to not get serious with this one. Only based off of what you posted and not having been in one before. Maybe she just doesn’t check all the boxes that you’re looking for exactly, which is fine, but could also be a long search to find someone perfect. Up to you, if your interest isn’t sky high after date three I’d wonder why and if there are dealbreakers that would make you think you’d eventually lose interest.
  8. Absolutely agree. What texted her was a much less serious convo than I think what you’re talking about. This was more of a - I’m deleting my dating apps because I like where this is going type of comment along with a hope your days going well - type message. Although, I’m sure I would’ve gotten the same message when I went to make plans for the upcoming Friday.
  9. That was what she sent me when I texted her saying essentially that I was deleted my profiles and wanting to focus on this and where it could go. I couldn’t figure out how to get rid of the quote when I replied on my phone.
  10. I agree it is. Everything was very good in person last Friday but she could always just enjoy my company but my gut says if her interest level is high that I’d hear more from her but everyone’s different. Probably why I’d like to see where we are at.
  11. This is sort of where I’m at. I don’t want her to think I’m just in it for kicks. To answer a couple replies here, we have talked about what we were looking for and how we were both looking for a meaningful connecting and wanting long term dating.
  12. Two months isn’t far off, guess I’ll have to play it by feel in the moment.
  13. Exactly my feeling here. That I don’t know her interest level and maybe that’s what has me anxious, which isn’t a healthy reason why to bring it up.
  14. That was what my gut is telling me. We shall see how it goes.
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