That makes me sad. I neither fear nor hate the male gender. I think men are beautiful, just as I think women are beautiful. In some similar and some very different ways. And I love the differences. I don't want to date a man who acts like a woman. If I wanted that I would just date women. However I am fine with however someone chooses to conduct themselves as long as it's done with kindness and a genuine caring for others.
I see good, kind people of all ages and all socioeconomic ranges. And I see attractive people across the board.
I choose to love, celebrate and admire others, not hate them or fear they're out to get me.
I have two friends who constantly state "everyone's an a-hole" and "I hate people". How sad.