Clarisse
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Hey, Fudgie! Nice to see you back and catch up on your exciting updates! So glad you’re getting a new job and leaving that toxic environment. And how fun is it to have your own home?!? We bought a cabin on 24 acres last year and are in the renovation phase. It’s a labor of love, for sure.
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Great post. So much introspection and learning and HOPE. Happy New Year, friend. Here's to a better year in 2018 for everyone.
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Sounds (cautiously) promising! I'm rooting for you, Reinvent.
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I love the prom picture! You had HS boyfriend should re-create it next time you see him. You have a really great life, Reinvent, and you're clearly enjoying it. But I believe if the right guy came along, you would find a way to fit him in, because you would WANT to. K just isn't the guy.
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Your subconscious is on overdrive, processing. Definitely unnerving.
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There's a connection, right? Loss?
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You definitely aren't on the same page with K. He sounds like the kind of guy that will interpret any interaction as interest. I would cancel dinner.
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Toby is a looker! How is Macy adapting?
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Hang in there, Reinvent. I know how difficult it is to overcome deeply ingrained, unhealthy patterns.
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I'm sorry you're having a rough time, Reinvent. Sometimes, we just have to let ourselves grieve. Be kind to yourself. Hugs.
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I'm so sorry you lost your sweet girl, Reinvent. She was an absolute beauty. It's devastating when we have to let a fur baby go.
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I'm sorry you're going through this. On 4/2 you were having doubts about your compatibility but weren't sure if your feelings were justified or whether it was self-sabotage. Sounds to me like your instincts were spot on. You have never been compatible. You've been hopeful that things could change, but deep down you know they wouldn't. And you were right. Perhaps there is some solace in that. You can trust your gut instincts. That's something you can take into your next relationship. If you ever date again. Hugs.
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I agree with WL. If the only doubts you're having is the lack of shared activities, that's no big deal. It sounds like you could be looking for issues when there aren't any.
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If that's the case, that would be too controlling for me. I would call that a deal breaker rather than self-sabotage.
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