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Rabican

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Rabican last won the day on October 29 2011

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  1. who the heck revives a 5 year old post? WTH
  2. Id say kick her to the curb. A one night fiasco one might be able to explain away as a moment of brainlessness and maybe I coudl forgive that. A months long affair, basically leading a double life.... forget it.
  3. Take your blinders off, and look at the facts. If he can cheat with you, he can cheat on you. Think about that the next time you think hes the one. Sheesh... just listen to what you are saying. What would you tell a friend, your sister, a daughter in your situation. YOu would say RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN!!!! and you know it!
  4. If you were actually broken up, meaning you said the words: we are through, finished, broken up, good bye have a nice life etc. etc. etc. then its not cheating. If you had a fight, and you walked off and said ya know... he looks cute Im gonna f* him... thats cheating. Broken up= not cheating Still together, but fighting, or having troubles = cheating Should you tell him? I dont know. How much time has passed? A lot? the more time, the less likely I would be to tell I think. Just dont do it again.
  5. Ill make this blunt, shes a tramp... end of story. Dont blame yourself, its not your fault. Try as you might, you cant turn a tramp into a housewife so dont try.
  6. Its not going to make you feel any better, but Im sure he did this because he could. That simple, end of story. Obviously his morals and character, and feelings for you did not outweigh his... ahem desires. Maybe hes just a jerk, but one things for sure, he paid for sex with a prostitue and then lied about it like crazy. Pack his bags!!!
  7. He has a right to look at porn. but. You have a right, not to want to be with someone who views porn. So.... theres that. Also if it is your computer, then it is your rules concerning it. If you do not want porn on it, he should respect that. I think that he should be honest with you regardless. If he is still going to look at porn, then you should know. and then you can decide what you want to do about it... stay togeter/ break up.
  8. Divorce him already... sounds to me like your marriage is shot already. why waste another 30 years with this guy? The sooner you end it, the sooner you can heal, the sooner you can move on, the sooner you can find Mr Right...
  9. I think it comes down to that simple situation where you want what you cant have. The nice guy, hes an easy catch. Once a girl lands the 'nice guy' shes pretty much got him, hook line and sinker. so the chase is over, the hard work is done. The 'bad boy' is always a work in progress, you never really 'win' the bad boy. So the chase never ends. Thus you always want what you cant have, the bad boy converted into the nice guy. But it never happens. So you settle for the nice guy, get bored with us, and then cheat... then you wonder why so many guys are *&%$'s
  10. I watch porn.... I just do. I dont think it takes anything away from my relationship or my girl. Id much rather be.... well you know... with her than watching porn. So its not like it replaces our sex life. Why do I watch it? I have no idea half the time. Sometimes Ill watch it if im in the mood and shes sleeping, or not in the mood. Sometimes Ill watch it just to watch it. But I dont think its a big deal really. If it becomes a habbit, or hes spending all your money on it then Id be concerned... otherwise consider it a mans version of watching a soap opera.
  11. I broke up with my girl. Slept with another girl while she was gone. Bot back together.... things are working out great at the moment, and have been for a while. She still gets a little mad about me being with the other... Ive more or less put it out of my head, its not something I think about, and I NEVER bring it up, because I know she is still hurt by it. Anyways... Id say its perfectly possible to break up, get it on and then get back together. Just dont ask for details... she did, and wishes she didnt.
  12. Your girlfriend just needs to make it known that she has A BOYFRIEND! and tell this 'chad' fellow that hes just someone to hang out with... and not a date!
  13. I didnt read your whole post... so My advice may be a little obsolete. Anyways, the first thing your GF should do is tell the guy, and her friend that pressured her into this that she has a boyfriend. She doesnt need to go into details if she doesnt want to. But the guy at the very least needs to know that they are going as friends. Chances are he will drop his request right there and try to find another girl. Secondly, if you trust her, then I wouldnt make a big deal of her going. If you do not really trust her (which can be hard to do in a LD relationship) then id suggest telling her that you would RATHER her not go... but its up to her. If she goes anyways, that sort of tells you if she respects your feelings or not.
  14. Tell her to get out of your life, and stay out. She sounds like a whole boatload of drama, trouble, cheating... problems that no sane man would want. How much do you want to bet shes telling you she cant stop thinking about you... and shes telling the army guy that shes completely over you and you were a total jerk. 100 bucks... want to take the bet? Avoid her like the plague man. You will be better off.
  15. Dont have an affair... and if you do... dont... but if you do, dont get caught. Your wife will go from being the cold as ice, emotionally checked out housewife to the poor, poor cheated and heartbroken wife. Guess what thats gonna mean when she files for divorce! Bingo.. your wallet gets killed. my advice, just flat out tell her that you arent happy with the way things are. Tell her either things start to change, or you are going to have to get a divorce. Do you really want to spend the next 30 years with the ice woman?
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