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Hey everyone, I recently met this waitress who I find very, very attractive. I have seen her with her boyfriend a few times and the relationship seems pretty strong. The other day I saw her with a couple of guys and decided to say hi. About 20 minutes later she came up to me and asked what i was doing the next day, she then asked me to watch her sing somewhere. I did. During her love song, she walked up to me while singing, and looking directly into my eyes. I caught her looking at me a couple more times throughout the evening as well. I saw her tonight and asked her if she was still dating that one guy... yes. hmmm. Before I left I told her this, "I dont mean to be mean, but if anything was to happen between you two, I would be more than happy to take you out sometime." -Do you think that comment was too much? Should I leave it alone? Comments please. I also realize that this post is far less serious than most. Just wanted feedback. Any ideas on winning her?

Hey- This may sound funny but check it out. Try not doing much of anything to your hair. Dress nicely, yet conservative. If you're having a good day- then that is the day to get ladies. Smiling is a big plus. Your friend gets ladies attention easier because he isnt as concerned about getting it. When you dont give a damn, The ladies will. To boost self-esteem, even a little online chatting or IMing can help alot. Since you get to practice saying things and say what you really want without up-close-and-personal consequences. Dont worry! It will come when you least expect it!!!!

Hello, I would not stand for what she is doing. I personally would tell her- "I'm aware that you find nothing wrong with the way you act around my friends, but it really bothers me, and for my sake please stop." -or SOMETHING in that area code. Please dont take that from her, It's not right, and you do not deserve to have your friends talking behind your back about YOUR woman, or deserve that sort of treatment. Keep an eye on her she sounds a little shiesty. Sorry for the negative (yet positive) post. It just makes me upset to hear that.

Hi- She probably doesn't want to talk about it- she probably wants to dwell in her depression. But deep down inside she does. Comfort her and dont bring up her ex-BF. Take caution- be smart, and I really hope she is okay.

The phone call was a no-no. Never call a girl you like, when you're drunk. (I know) It sounds like she does like you, try talking without getting serious or incorporating your feelings into the conversation, instead try making her laugh, and just bullsh** with her! The serious stuff needs to wait; And by all means- Doing something stupid will only make you look stupid! Take your time-

How long did her and the x date? Im guessing over 6 mo.?

I definitely agree with the previous post. Initiate a friendly conversation, and things will unfold as the conversation(s) progress!

It sounds like he wants to use you as a "back-up plan". He subconsciously likes how she doesn't like his clothes and apparel. He'll fall for her most likely. Talk to him bluntly, don't hold back. but don't get crazy on him or cry ( that will be a turn-off ). Hope i helped a little.