findthyself

That boyfriend seriously deserves a kick in the pants!!!!!! How does ur daughter react to all of this? Is she afraid of him? does she still like him? If i were in ur shoes, I would sit down with my daughter and tell her that she does not deserve someone disrespecting her like that. She shouldnt have to change herself to suit someone else or take that crap from anyone, especially some teenage loser like this guy. If she has the courage to do this, she should tell him to his face to stop harassing her and if he doesn't, she should ask one of her tough guy friends to step in and tell him to quit it. If that doesn't work...go to the police and report him for harassment.....thats what my friend did after her guy friends couldn't make an annoying ex disappear....... that should teach the little brat!!!

That must be so tough for you!!! Have you ever stopped to consider WHY you think ur in love with this man? I mean what is it about him? From ur description, he doesn't sound that great. He's cheated on your cousin twice, he's had a child from a previous affair and he's sending you hot and cold signals when he KNOWS ur married with 4 great children!!! What's all that about? It sounds more like he just enjoys messing around. This is just my opinion, but just imagine being in ur cousin's shoes, as his wife, with the feelings u have. Do you think he'll feel the same way about u, or will he just play you like he's been playing his wife? This is my opinion but i think that you have a great family and you love your cousin.....go to a therapist, talk it out, get over it and then move on with ur family..focus on his crappy points...and compare them to the great points of your family and ask yourself, can i really give this up? i really think u love ur family so be realistic.....that guy sounds like a jerk.....dont give him the satisfaction of messing with you and ur life!!!

Has anyone ever felt like there life's lost direction and it is almost impossible to get back on track? I feel like that RIGHT NOW!!! My ambition was always to be a doctor, but bad choices--like going to a depressingly tough school, majoring in something i hate and having horrible MCAT scores the first two times are totally hindering this dream.. the problem is...i can't seem to let go of it....instead of trying something else, this goal still persists....i dont know if its familial pressure,me being stubborn or just really really wanting to be a doctor, but i can't shake it off. And what's worse is that it seems like everyone around me is getting into med except me...everyone has a direction, a passion in life.....and i just feel like i'm stuck to the spot while time is passing me by. I dont know what to do anymore.....i'm just afraid i'm aiming for something that cannot be or that i'm not trying hard enough or that i'm putting too much pressure on myself........essentially i'm afraid to fail again...i care too much about what other people think...and i hate feeling like that.....how do i get back on track? WHAT SHOULD I DO?