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  1. I just came accross this and want to say that I am right there with you folks. My wife and I have known eachother since High School and have been married for almost 5 years now (we are in our early 30's). We have two beautiful children and all was going well. She has had some problems lately, and I can no longer tolerate the way she is choosing to handle them. We have decided to separate and my hope is that she will get her problems fixed and that "true love" will prevail. My fear is that she is not as devoted as I am and that she will lose sight of the future that we can provide together for our children. I keep getting these negative thoughts that she is looking for the quick fix of new companionship and not address her real problems. This - of course - has me feeling insecure and insignificant - FOR NO GOOD REASON. This has been very unhealthy, but I have hope. We are divorcing as friends, and hopefully that will help things to come to pass favorably. As was said before. You have to let them go and hope that they will come back, but I am realizing that there is little I can do to change things and that worrying serves no good but to mess me up mentally. I will continue to be a good person and a great father, but as for her - I can only wait and concentrate on the good things in life. Hopefully this will give you something to think about.
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