Ratclif

Thanks for the advice...no fighting....dont believe there is anyone else (She told me 2x and I believe her)...We are both career driven and over the last few months have drifting apart...work events, travel...sometimes felt that there was little to talk about....but there is still love and I know there are strong feelings between us. She said she just needs the time to sort things out. I realize that I need to do all I can for me right now and have a strong support group together. The limbo time is difficult. Its been 3 weeks ..told her to take all the time she needs as I want her and I ( or us) to be Happy...just sometimes wish I could more.

My Wife of 3 years moved out mid September. I thought everything was fine ..knew we had a few unresolved issues but they certainly were not anything we could not get through and resolve. She said she wasnt happy in our marriage anymore and that she needed to move out to find hapiness....said that it didnt mean the end but if I did not allow her to do this on her own it certainly would be the end. I was devastated. She has all but refused to see a counselor together and is not seeing one on her own. She swears that its not because of another man and I believe her. We have seen each other a few times since she left and correspond via email and sometimes on a call. We are both having our up & down days. I am trying to give her all the room she needs but she says that this could go either way. Saw her tonight for coffee and we had a good time. We caught up with one another and even laughed a few times. I did notice she wasnt wearing her wedding rings. Did not want to push the issue as I did not want to ruin our good time. Its pretty obvious that all I can do for the relationship is to be supportive of her during this time as she contemplates a decision regarding our marriage. But its been difficult. Should I read anything into the not wearing her rings????...should I have said something to her and risked pushing her further away??...any advice on how to handle this...would like her back and am willing to meet her half way but it takes two to tango...thanks