As a guy, I thought of myself as multi-orgasmic in the sense that I think I am going to ejaculate, and I have a small orgasm, but I don't ejaculate... Then I think I come close to ejaculating again, and orgasm, but don't ejaculate... then again, and again, etc.
Then finally I build up to the big orgasm and then ejaculate with it. But I was told by other guys that all these orgasms do not count as orgasms, and it only counts if you ejaculate with it.
A few months ago, I had sex with a woman and orgasmed in about two minutes or less, cause she was really hot, and she thought that I faked it and didn't believe I could come that fast. Or she said she didn't think I could so I thought she assumed I faked it, especially when she asked to see my condom cause she wanted to see if I ejaculated.
I thought I probably did cause of the orgasm I had, but it turned out that it the condom was dry on the inside and I did not ejaculate inside it. So I explained to her that I had a dry orgasm, but she kind of raised an eyebrow like she never heard of that.
So why do you think? Does it count as an orgasm for a guy if there is no ejaculation, out of curiosity?