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  1. Itsok
    Do just that. Tell her once and for all that you are tired of being yo yo'd along, and you won't tolerate this. Either you're together or you're not.
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    Sasha you are 35 years old. Don't let your family dictate your life for you. Why don't you explain to them that he is your boyfriend and they can learn to deal with it because it is your choice, not theirs.
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    Hi guys! I just started SparkDiet which I am in love with by the way. if you're interested. Anyhoo, since I've been logging my calories and trying to eat better, I've been having the worst indigestion after I eat! It's so annoying and of course antacids don't do anything because it's not heartburn. I thought switching from mayo to mustard, eating more veggies, eating more fish, drinking more water, exercising, etc. would make a person feel better, not worse! I never had this problem before, only occasionally after eating too much. Do you think this will correct itself or should I be correcting my eating habits in some way? I'm healthy otherwise, but take cranberry pills & aciodopholus everyday, as well as the BCP. The only thing I've noticed is that I've lowered my carbs and upped my protein (a conscious effort)...do you think that has anything to do with it? Any input is appreciated. I know you aren't doctors, but I'm curious if anyone has either experienced something different when starting a 'healthier' diet! When all I ate was greasier food I didn't have indigestion like this! Stupid healthy food! Hugs! Itsok
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    Here's a virtual husband for you until you can fill the void. This will give you a reminder of what you have to look forward to so you can enjoy your single life in the meantime EDIT: This is in NO way supposed to be a blow at you, I'm only trying to make you smile
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    I dunno about that girl actually. She confuses me. One moment she loves you, the next she's unsure of you. No wonder you're feeling a bit akward! I wouldn't make any moves on her yet, especially since she is wavering back and forth. She needs to feel a strong emotional connection before she'll want to get to that level again. You aren't doing anything wrong at all. I think she is confused as to why things don't feel perfect like before, and the reason for that? This is what happens when you've broken up. A piece of trust and attachment in the relationship has been broken and needs to be reestablished. This will take time. Rarely do couples get back together and then carry on perfectly like they did before the breakup. Honestly though M, how much are you willing to put up with? That is something you should keep in mind for the next while. Sometimes people get back together only because they are so uncomfortable without the other. If you both continue to be so uncomfortable even though you are dating again, that's something to think about, but not now. Wait a while and try to give it a chance first. If you two aren't meant to be it will become evident shortly.
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    Agree with Wildchild. It hurts but they are trying to help you realize she is not the one for you. Don't be upset with your friends, they are only trying to help you.
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    I had a bad feeling about this guy and it's been confirmed yet again. Don't you see that he isn't worth this struggle and effort you keep plugging into him? He's like a slot machine in Vegas. Once every few million tries he gives out something good but the rest of the time he's a deadbeat. You're only 16. This is too much of a hassle of a relationship to keep struggling with at this age. Odds are even if you stayed together for the next year or so you won't ever get married or anything anyway, so why put in all the effort? At your age relationships are a test to see what you want or do not want in a mate. You are seeing what you do not want in a mate, that's fine. Realize the lesson and learn from it. Life is too short for relationships like this, and you are much too young to have relationships like this. Kick his stupid butt to the curb and find someone who will treat you with some respect.
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    Why would you end your life when you are enjoying things so much right now? You have things to look forward to, and you seem to have a comfortable living. It doesn't make sense. So you're struggling with motivation. You seem quite motivated to kill yourself it seems. If you would put that effort into living your life instead, I'm sure you could have whatever it is you so desperately need right now that you are considering this. Why not put some effort into motivating yourself and finding some happiness from within instead of punishing yourself? Remember suicide is a permanant answer to a temporary problem.
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    Honestly, let his mom pick up the cat and then you go get it from her. If you love the kitty there's no reason you shouldn't have the poor thing! It's probably so confused being tossed around between homes like that. If I were you I would take the kitty back. He has no hold over you and will be preoccupied with his new toy for some time now. Why not have your little friend, who is missing his other kitty friend too???
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    Sadhatter, you just got out of a relationship did you not? It seems you've found yourself another 'unavailable girlfriend.' I think if I'm correct, you should wait a while and figure out why you're attracted to these women who aren't available to you. You must have something in your past with regards to that. If I'm wrong and you are not who I'm thinking of, she isn't good girlfriend material anyway. She isn't showing a lot of initiative, and you have to chase her much more than should be required at this point. I wouldn't keep up the chase, as she doesn't appear to be worth it now. If she showed some interest it would be different!
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    Time to get rid of this baggage my friend. She is too chicken to break it off herself and wants you to do the dirty deed. There's better out there for you. Do it sooner rather than later.
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    I'd get the cat back. I'm not sure how he got it in the first place since he has no care in his soul about the animal anyway.
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    Eat a bit healthier chocolate Seriously, this is an excellent chocolate craving recipe and it's not horrible for you: Take one chocolate cake mix and add one can of pumpkin pie filling. Spread it out over a cake pan (be sure to spray with a little Pam first so it doesn't stick) and bake at cake directions. No other ingredients are needed. It will come out quite 'brownie' textured, and has a great spice to it thanks to the pumpkin!
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    The Lady of Shallot. This was an excellent poem brought up in an English course I took. Very easy to be expressive. Give it a read anyhow!
  15. Itsok
    I agree with everyone here. You must use some judgement and stop allowing yourself to get into these situations. If you live life the way it is meant to be lived, you can look forward with conviction and to the past without regrets. Keep these things in mind while you walk through life.
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