For a long time now , I have had a good friendship with this guy who asked me out right after I had broken up from a serious relationship. He wasn't being obnoxious when he asked me out , but I felt it was too soon to hook up with someone , so i I told him maybe later... well since then he would always tslk to me about who he was or wanted to be dating , and even asked about my sister , but at the same time people I didn't even know would come up to me and tell me how much he talks about me , how much he wants me , how in love he is , and blah blah blah ...whixh was the complete opposite of what I had been hearing from him . Some girls even told me that they asked him out only to be rejected because he said he wanted me , but then he would ask me about my sister ( my frineds think it's to make me jealous) and then he would tell me things like I am the coolest girl he knows , and if we hadn't spoken in a while (it's hard for me to see him now because we go to different schools but live close to each other and hang out less ) he would call me out of the blue. I know he cares , or he wouldn't want anything to do with me , but his friends say he is afraid of rejection. , so he isn't making moves, and lately it's like I have been practically throwing myself at him , but he does a lot of drugs and I don't think he likes me lthe way he used to. I just need to get his attention. I try , but it only works for a little while , and then it doesn't matter . The drug thing isn't a big issue in his case , but I can't figure out what to say to him . Plus , he owes me money , and I feel like maybe he was using me when we hung out recently... I brought it up to him , but he disagreed... and I don't know what is going on . He has never been one to use me ,so I don't want to falsley accuse him but right now it seems like our friendship isn't even what it used to be,so how can I get things back to normal , and what can I do to get him to ask me out again? I have dropped alot of hints , but I don't think he really cares...should I just move on? (he was into drugs before we were friends , and it's not why things are weird although some people will disagree) Am I making any sense? Does this seem weird or crazy? I just need someone else to give me an opinion! anything will be appreciated !
