Because I just cant get used to the feeling of incontinence, it feels yucky, undignified, embarassing, and yes dirty. I didnt actually realise that others didnt feel that way.
I have often wondered about that, and I have joked about it, because Im damn sure it isnt suppost to burn and gritting your teeth and hoping for it to be over isnt nice..
I have spoke to a gynaecologist some time ago, and they refused to do anything to help me, unless I lost nearly half my body weight and weighed the same as I did in primary school, so there's no hope there. That and the fact that there's probably a waiting list of a couple of years. I know the chances are slim, but I never had any opportunity to try before, so I cant give up yet, no matter how slim the chances.
I haven't received any help for it no, and I really don't want to have to open that can up, for what I don't know, and plus where would I go. I'm in the UK, people don't really do therapy, and CBT really don't do jack and is all they offer really, and plus the wait list will probably again be years..
Its ironic I always thought when I ditched condoms it would make sex easier, and more spontaneous, and I spent ages looking forward to getting rid of them. But its really quite the opposite, and I cant wait for when I can think of using them again...
Thanks for your replies....