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Amano Ginji

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  1. Moving on is a 4 stage process. I like to measure my progress based on the following 5 levels. 1. You know your still stuck on your ex when your counting the days since the break up. 2.You know your getting better when you start counting weeks instead of days. 3.You know your doing good when you start counting months instead of weeks. 4.You know your doing really good when you start counting years instead of months....... 5. You know you've moved on when you cant remember how long it has been since you broke up. I have made it to level 3. Just 2 more levels to go and I will be as good as new
  2. Broke 20 day NC a week back.. so back to day 6.. Went for a party last night, ended up sitting in one corner because I was missing her. Could not connect with any one around including my friends. Starting to realize the only person who knows me truly is her. The only person who I can be myself with, is her. Been together for 3.9 years.. with 1 year of LDR.. broke up 2 molnths back!!
  3. Gregg, Mary shouldnt be takin so much time to decide. But She maybe in love with u and still not be over Ron. This is goin to be very harmful to your relationship in the future. It can lead to a lot of pain, She mite end up cheating on you(Considering the fact that she is not sure of wat she wants!) But on the other hand, I personally think you should give her some time. Because this must have been a shock for her too. I truly think there is a high posibilty of ur relationship working. But.. Ron has to go. I would suggest that if she wants to be with you, Then she should cut all contacts with her ex because there are high chances of him tryin to ask her to come back in the future(Which happens quite often these days!!). Which will bring u back.. to square one!. Is she ready to give up Ron totally for u?. This is the most important question!
  4. That has been the toughest part, Leting go is so damn difficult! Well i try my best to make plans, Invite him to places even if m with people he never met or knows. Well cuz i cant forget the times we spent together. I wanna give it another try. The kind of advice i am looking for is, Which will help me get things back to normal. I dont wanna just LET GO!! Hanging out with other friends doesnt feel this good. I dunno what kind of attatchment i have with him, But doesnt feel the same wid ne one else. WE HAD A BLAST EVERY SINGLE DAY!! Ps- its nothing to do with his physical appearance, But the way we had our fun!
  5. Hey Has this happened to anyone... U make a good friend. Somone u never met. And things are going great. Ur partying, Studying , Enjoyin life together. U start thinking , Wow did i meet this guy before? Cuz it seems like we no everyhting bout each other in say about only 2 months!!. And u create a slogan for ur friendship "Bad Boys For LIFE"........... And then, Just like that. One fine day, U just fail to understand what went wrong. And everything is over. No more calling, Making plans, Or even talking? But Just meeting during lecture hours, Waving and saying HI!.. And thats it. And then months later, U get a call and are invited to a party from the same friend. And u think, Things are finally getting back to normal. But just when ur feeling good about it, Weeks pass, And no more plans. No more calling again. What do u do? How do u move on. How do u forget about the best days of ur life. When u found a brother, Not a friend. This may bee to deep. But i am feeling really low about this whole thing. Needed to get it out somewhere.
  6. definitely on the back of my head..Thats the best!!! Or a warm hug before starting to kiss..yeah,then where the hands go wont matter.. Yeah i remember once me and my gf were kissing..and she put her hands inside my pockets and then i put my hand in my pockets too!..It feels awesome!..try it!!!
  7. @shy soul..Yeah thats really true @ Rozi! Me and my gf have known each other since 6 and a half years years..N if by any chance u get to read one of my oldest posts..I was exactly in a sittuation like yours. Worried about losing the friendship.But i made up my mind and asked her out..Yes it wasnt the first time i did it..I had asked her out twice before this couple of years back..N now we into a relation ship..Been 4 months and things cant get better. Reason y i shared my story is to prove to u that it does work out..But only if u dont give up!..I tried 3 times..Mayb u have to try only twice!!
  8. Do u really think ur ready for it?..U dont even know her..And next thing you know she said yes and u find ur self in a long distance relationship!!
  9. She works at a grocery store right?..Ask one of the other people working there wat time do they usually have break or something..Maybe if u ask them wat time her break is,maybe they mite tell her about u!! Well if this is too complicated,Y dont u just ask her out straight away.. I remember a similar post where someone had given some good advice..Ill share it with u. Y dont u ask her where u get X thingy.(if its a huge place,U wouldnt no rite!!)..Maybe she ill walk u to the shelf where its kept..Hmm thats when u ask her..Hope u get wat i mean
  10. Hey How about tryin to find out her work hours..Maybe when she's got a break or something..thats wen u casually ask her to come wid u for cofee or some thing!..hows that? too blunt?...
  11. Hey Yeah..She uses more than 50 percent of the talking time on me..well i dint think of that in the first place..hey that really makes me feel better.. On the other hand..i still feel like wat "the yang of the worlds yin" said is kinda rite too..I still do feel i am being taken advantage of.. I no i cheated on her..But this has been happening from the day w started.. i dunno i am confused..should i tell her..or let it be.. actually i have told her once or twice how it affects m monthly spendings a lot..even though 50 percent of it is used up on me..the rest 50 percent..which is an equal share..is used by her rite!! ps-She gave me a greeting card..it said she misses me when m not around..it was really sweet..i did forget about this whole thing after that..But just yeterday she asked me to recharge her card..thats when the same feeling started irritatin me!!
  12. Let me keep this short and simple. It's been 4 months since i got into a relationship with this girl.Firstly i dont have a job cuz of the busy schedule.So m living on my dads money at this moment. Now once a month my gf asks me to recharge her phone card for around 180 minutes talk time..now that doesnt cost too much..But if u go to sum it up..she always says shez gonna pay me for it..she no's i dont earn..But yet 4 months and she hsnt payed me a single penny. Not that i dont like lending her money.But it should be understood that she HAS TO PAY ME BACK!!..cuz i dunt like lending money to someone whu dsnt pay it back..Even if it has to be someone i love.. Besides i dont even like asking for it..Wat do i do..Seems like shez taken it for granted that am gonna pay for her without hesitation..which is not the case...Wat do i dooo?..i'm clueless I try so hard to save as much money as i can.But recharging her phone card is really something that gets on my nerves. dont like feeling this way one bit!
  13. Wow u said it all DN...there is no better way of thinking about it... Alright thanx to everyone whu spent time on reading this thread and giving me advice..cuz i know its a long one.. I think the solution to the problem lies in wat Dn has said...
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