princess34

I have appreciated all of your insights that you have given. I am not on here to simply make a list of laundry complaints, but just to detail about my situation so that information would not be limited so that one can fairly assess the situation. If I were to give advice or insight about a matter, I cannot base my opinions off of limited info. I am not putting him on a pedestal. How would you know that I have friends and family that I can talk to when I am a complete stranger to you? This is an open forum and message board for "Relationship advice." I can choose to view and listen to anyone who posts or vent about their issues because people have the space and a right to do so. Rather than being obsessed with having the last word, if you are frustrated or annoyed by my posts, the simple thing to do is to stop responding.

I just want to know if I am being rational or not and not overreacting. I also do not have anyone to discuss and share my feelings with. He gets mad easily as well. He always makes others angry by stating his bold opinions and talking down to others and calling them stupid and other demeaning names. Sometimes he will be talking in a normal fashion with me and then he would lash out and just flip like a light switch. He has told me that he does not understand me when I speak sometimes, mentioning how I talk too fast. It's like I have to be on eggshells and make sure that I do not make him mad about anything, because he will seem to snap about trivial things. He said that back in the day he always used to be on edge ready to fight others.

We have been dating for 11 months. And he said that his wife's family got involved and was the cause of the split. They have been divorced for over 10 years and they also have adult children. On Valentine's Day, he called me later on that day (when he normally would call me in the mornings when he gets off work) and was implying but not directly mentioning how he had not heard from me. Another thing too is that he always talks about how he used to get a lot of women and how no woman has ever rejected him. He even told me that he prefers "bold" women who come on to him or approach him first, which is the total opposite of my personality. Matter of fact, I did not approach him first nor have I ever offered myself to him, or any man for that matter. The women that he call hot are mostly celebs, although he has mentioned about the numerous gorgeous women he has had in life. He also told me about how women used to offer him their bodies and how neither him nor any other man would ever turn women down in that manner., mentioning how it is hard for men to turn down a woman who offers their bodies. He did not open the door for her in my face because we were on the phone. I was not there but I heard the exchange and this is definitely what happened because it was loud enough for me to hear. Btw, he and others have always said that he is and always has been a really bold person.

I forgot another time when he received a call from a woman with a wrong number and mentioned how the woman sounded like she was gorgeous, even though he did not know what the woman looked like because she had the wrong number.

Ok, I just want some opinions on this one. Is it okay for a guy to hold the door open for a woman that he does not know and call her "his queen?" I am in a relationship with a guy and I heard him on the phone going into a store and as he was holding the door open for a woman he said, "Hello, my queen." Also, he has often told me on several occasions how his ex-wife looks like a gorgeous singer and actress. For example, he was watching a movie one day and told me that his ex wife looked like the singer. And sometimes, he also calls different women beautiful and gorgeous. He also told me about how he bought flowers on Valentine's Day for his ex wife (when they were together) and how fine she was. But, I also thought about how he did not buy me anything on Valentine's Day. Is this all okay?

I havent talked about it...Is it ok to bring up or mention about his ex-wife looking like a beautiful actress?

I was just curious as to if this is a big deal or something petty? Often when he mentions about other women, it is just like "Oh she looked good or she was cute" or something like that. And, we are in our 30s. Is it okay for someone to constantly comment on others when they already have someone?

Hello all. So I have a question. Is it okay for someone to be in a relationship with a guy who often talks about how beautiful other women are? So, he may say that he saw a woman somewhere and comment on how nice she looked. Also, he told me that he was watching a movie with this actress who he said "looks good" and then he mentioned that his ex-wife looks like the actress. What do you all think about this? I would really appreciate the insight. Thanks all.