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smackie9

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  1. Sorry but if you want to approach you need to have ballz to do it....ain't no way around it. If you are way too shy, you may have to pass on this one.
  2. Ya you can. You just knock on his door and say, "I saw this left here at your door, you must have an admirer." I'm _____ btw, you must be new here.....
  3. From what I hear, they are not cold just indifferent, but kinky.
  4. Bake him a pie and welcome him to the hood.
  5. He doesn't want to be friends, but he would probably be on board to fire up the old arrangement of having sex regularly again if he's single/not sleeping with someone....I agree with the above post, it's possible he's found another arrangement. Take your cue, he's not interested.
  6. Once you get away from him and go no contact, you will get your strength, and stand tall. I too was in an abusive relationship where he would say he would change but a week later he was back at it. The cycle kept repeating itself. It was hard to walk away but it was the best thing I ever did. It takes a lot of healing and self love, but you will get through it. Don't let him hoover you back...you be firm and cut him off.
  7. Your poor choice is matched with her verdictive behavior. You both lack in how to communicate like mature adults. As they say honesty is the best policy so maybe put that into practice next time. Yes you should dump her, everything you did or didn't do has resulted in tainting this relationship. You can't have your cake and expect them to accept you are going to eat it too.
  8. Just text her back and tell her to contact you when she can be available. Leave the ball in her court. If you don't hear from her in a week or two. Then just toss her number.
  9. Decline his invitation. He's not looking to make friends. He's a guy...you slept with him so he's taking another shot at getting laid. Guys that ask you out, want sex. Plain and simple.
  10. There is nothing you can do but trust his word if there is no proof, and he doesn't show that kind of behavior. At least he is made aware of the accusations and is having good communication with you about it. For me I would be more cautious about his ex, with her history of mental illness. Don't let her interrupt your life...block delete, set your SM to private/no IM...if things do escalate, I would be exiting the relationship.
  11. I'm guessing you have been down this road before, and realizing you see it for what it is. Always go with your gut feeling.
  12. It is short, so you have the choice now to walk away.
  13. Just saying on her account and her expectations. Not all men operate that way.
  14. You don't "accidentally" have sex. You two both agreed/consented to have sex. Don't dump your guilty conscience on him, you need to own your responsibility to this. I suggest you get some counselling to get your head straight about your feelings about sex and dating before you set fire to this guy again and accuse him of rape because your brain ain't right.
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