The term "having game" is open to interpretation. Commonly people know it as a way to manipulate women. But you can also look at it as understanding the women psyche well and being able to present yourself in a way that attracts them. It's not manipulation, it's just understanding attraction. And BTW women do it too knowing that men are visual creatures, they will attract with their body language, with dressing up, putting on nice heels, certain perfumes, etc. Just that men do it differently because women are stimulated emotionally which is more difficult to navigate.