You just made a simple choice to adjust to your new situation. Not sure why there is anxiety surround this. My guess you are anxious about you investing so such in someone you haven't met yet. Yes you need to slow your roll before you end up completely disappointed. Dating is a crap shoot...always a gamble, but life would be boring if we didn't take risks. Whatever happens, like things don't work out...so what, The sun rises and sets, life goes on.