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  1. i'm only 3 months pregnant and i keep on losing weight, my doctor said it was because i cant keep any fod down from always being nervous, i dont think i'm nervous all the time though, but i guess the baby is fine, and my boyfriend and i are happy about that, but my doctor wants me to try to gain weight sense i'm less then what i was b4 i got pregnant and every time i try to eat i get sick. i have a choice to try some meds or just suck it up and get sick after every meal and i dont know what to do, because i geuss the meds can harm the baby and with me getting sick after every meal can cause an ealy birth. i was just wondering if somthing like this has happened to anyone else and how it turned out and what they did.i dont want to harm my baby and i would do anything just so its healthy. please respond, alicia
  2. telling ppl they should kill themselves is very unthoughtfull, and if thats all you have to say i dont think you should have stated your opinion.
  3. thank you for your apology.and i also apologize.and i'm not trying to change anyones mind or anything like that. i was just stating that some ppl should think about what they say b4 they say it.but its over and thank you. alicia
  4. i dont really care, i just come on here hopeing that maybe i haev some advice to give someone that will help them and it just upsets me to see ppl being rude like that and just giving advice like deal with it, instead of well you can do this to help youself.but ok.thanks for finally ending this
  5. no i'm not trying to start anything. just being a teen mother myself and knowing how i felt when ppl said stuff like that it hurts, so ppl do need to grow up and realize that ppl have feelings and we arent here to post things for advice and get some jerk saying stuff that shouldnt be said.so if you would like to start somthing and wanna talk further talk to me on msn messanger email removed
  6. OK, me and this guy were dating a long time.we were at a party and things just happened, i was on the pill so i didnt think i would end up pregnant and i've known the guy forever so i new he didnt have anything.but i ended up pregnant, when i told him he got really scared and promised he would be there.months went by and i got no call, i'm only 16 so i had my parents help. i went into labor and gave him a call, he didnt even show up.then he started dating my best friend.that really got me mad, but having a new baby girl i moved on, trying to be stroung for her.i stayed in school and met new people. i moved out of my parents house 3 months ago and moved in with my b-f hes 19 and loves my daughter very much. this pissed my ex off very much, seeing me move on.so now he wants to try and get custody of my daughter. he has never been there for her and doesnt even care about her and he told me that himself.he just wants to ruin my life, so he says.but to top it off i'm pregnant agian, but me and my b-f planed this one.but b-4 all this stuff started with my ex.now i'm just worried that hes gonna just take my daughter.i dont know what to do.i've tryed calling the sec of state and they didnt do much of anything. i'm just affraid of losing my baby.
  7. Alicia, this is mom. you're a good kid and a great mom, i'm very proud of the things you've done and how you handle things. i'm so glad you didnt put haylee up for adoption or anything.i know you'll be a great mom to the new baby also. anyone who veiws this page i hope you see how you need to inform your parents on things. they do love you and mean well.at first all parents are going to blow their top and yell at the fact their baby is going to have a baby,alicia went through a hard time in school with people being rude and everything because alicia was going to be a mom, but she finished it off. seeing how hard it was for her i just hope that all you guys and girls know what you're doing when you make adult choices.once you make the adult choices and have sex you can end up having to be an adult youself.i wish all of you the best of luck and hope you become great parents.you really do have to grow up fast and i've seen how hard it is.but good luck....
  8. when i got pregnant with my 1st daughter i was so scared of being alone,because the father wasnt there, he wanted to be a teen, like i wish i could have. but i had my parents there supporting me and doing whatever they could to make sure i was in school, some teens dont have that. and i know my parents read these things so mom all i gotta say is thank you for everything, putting up with all the crap i put you through and you always told me what bad things were gonna happen but like most teens i had to learn by experience and i just had to see for myself but you were always there helping me out. i use to be a carless teen and now i'm a mother myself at a youg age but ur still proud of everything i do.you let me move out with don and live my life, and now i'm so happy. i just want you to know that.i'm finishing school next yr and going to college and i couldnt have done it without you.i just wish everyone in my situation had a parent that cares and understands as much as you did..i love you mom...alicia
  9. i dont think she would want to put the baby up for adoption if shes the only thing she has in life.my daughter means a lot to me to and i would never consider just giving her up.but you can go to school.get ahold of a health department around ur area and they can help you out with trying to find daycare for your daughter while ur kn school. or there's even schools that have daycares in them to bring ur daughter and its free.i did that for a lil while but now i have a 2cnd on the way so i switched to online classes.my moms friend did open adoption and they moved and didnt even let her see the baby.and there was nothing that the court could do about it because she signed papers saying she gave all rights to them.so if you do open adoption thats another thing you have to think about.but anyways. there are a lot of programs that will help you out. like wic.they will pay for all ur babies formula and really the only thing u haev to buy ur daughter is diapers clouthes and stuff like that.but you do need school so just think about what i said.and i hope i helped..alicia
  10. i just think that some of the advice ppl are giving is stuff that should have been said to this girl befor she got pregnant, now that she already is nothing anyone says can change that,oh and to get back to the 18 yr old should be put in jail, not gonna work. i was 14 and the guy was 18 and there was nothing we could have done because i let it happen.and no i didnt do drugs or anything like that. actually i was very smart and got very good grades, i just liked to go out to parties and have fun once in a while and things just happened, no back to cookiegirl.i dont know about anyone else but i like to give ppl advice knowing their situation and what they can do to better themselves and give them more confidence in themselves to be a better parent, they are already gonna get lectured enough by their parents.plus you cant change the past, but you can make the future better for everyone around you.and do you think trying to put the babies father in jail is good for anyone?no its just gonna leave a helpless baby without a father.stat. rape is up to 40 yrs, that can be 40 yrs that child can go fatherless.and no there is no age on love. there's only one right person for everyone.and besides ppl make mistakes but they gotta learn from them. hope i helped.alicia
  11. hey all i got to say is cangrats.my daughters father and i went through the same thing, we fought all the time.i knew he loved me in the beginning then we started slipping apart.the phone calls got shorter and the fighting grew.then i went into labor, when i had my daughter i realized that the fighting wasnt worth it. my daughter didnt deserve that. so i stoped dating for a lil while until i grew on the fact that i was going to be a mom. now i'm with a guy that loves me and my daughter so much, and i'm so glad i got over her father.nothing is worth fighting.you'll find somone.good luck alicia
  12. thank you for ur advice and i know what ur saying because i'de probally give the same advice, but thats not an option with this guy, the other guy was a mistake and i new that right away.but me and this guy have known eachother for a while and we're happy and in love.but thank you again. back to the advice i do need though. how to get my daughters father to stop with all the threats.
  13. well its already happened. not much you can do now.if you dont wanns keep it the only thing i would suggest is adoption, i'm not into the whole abortion thing so i would suggest that.but ur friend doesnt deserve a guy that would cheat on her.so just tell ur friend the truth, she might get over it, she might not, but atleast you'll be at better ease with urself.or have him tell ur friend because he did it too. well good luck.. alicia
  14. hi, ppl really need to grow up. i mean shes already pregnant, lets not make her feel any worse. i thought this website was here to help ppl out not make them feel bad.listen, i had my baby at a young age and i'm doing a great job, i'm doing better off with a baby then without, she straightend up my life.and for saying the 18 yr old guy should be put in jail, if shes pregnant and she wanted to have sex with him he cant get put in jail, i know all this. theres no age on love, and if they love eachother let them be, thats how i see it.as long as shes there for her baby.but cookiegirl, ahead of you and ur b-f comes that baby.just remember that. and stay in school. do ur best to. it all matters now.good luck, alicia
  15. ok, i dont see how i'm ruining my life if i have my own place a nice car, my daughter is well taken care of, my boyfriend owns his own business and i'm in homeschooling, and i'll be finished in no time and i have the money for college and that's already all set up and me and my b-f planed to have this baby because we are financially fit and we love eachother and. thats not what i needed advice with. the advice i needed was how to get my daughters dad to leave us alone.and me daughters father, yes i know was a mistake because we didnt love eachother and it was our first time and we were at a party and just didnt care. but i'm doing what i need to do and hes not. and me and my b-f are getting married but we want a big wedding and that takes time to plan. and i want to have the wedding after i have our baby. so thanks anyways.. alicia
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